Erotic massage parlor? Other "pro" masturbation practitioners?

I expected to find a "search" function here to see if there are any discussions about massage parlors.

Anyone here go for erotic massage?

I'm single and far from home for a while, working in a major north-midwest city.
I've been under a lot of work pressure, etc and was very jumpy, nerves strained.
I've been masturbating every day for weeks, and was in search of just a little more.

I've tried massage parlors perhaps 5 times over the years. I couldn't say the experience was so great... only an OK massage, and the masturbation was really no better.

Two nights ago I tried another..
This was a completely different experience.
A not-attractive Chinese woman perhaps 40 or so administered a gentle table-shower, dried me head to toe with soft warm towels, then led me back to the room where I had undressed.

She spoke only 6 or 7 words of English, but she knew exactly what she was doing! The massage was the best I've ever had, very relaxing.
After starting of course on my back, doing also my legs, feet, arms, hands, and butt, she then had me turn over.
She was smiling and pleasant, giggling a bit at my quiet groans of pleasure.

Without asking for more money or being coy about it she began massaging my thighs, torso, and hips. As I became erect she applied oil and gently masturbated me to a very fine orgasm, talking quietly in Chinese, smiling and giggling the entire time.

After dressing I of course gave her a nice tip and a hug.

Call it what you will, I think of it as what they so often advertise, "relaxation therapy" as much or more so than a sexual thing as such.

You?

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sounds like sensual massage to me. You can join massage exchange and can meet like minded people for therapeutic or sensual massage. It is free you merely trade massages.
Sounds like your massage was very relaxing with a happy ending!
Massages are wonderful, I know I enjoy giving and receiving them.

 

like the one on the bottom left of the page?

 

I have a girlfriend who works as a massage therapist. She's not licensed :O She and a few friends give massages, and they do charge for extras so really its a prostitution thing….but I'm not judging whatever thats beside the point. They do all kinds of hand jobs/fingering if you want it. I live in NYC, in Chinatown there are massage parlors where old women stand outside and wink at you etc.

I have a bunch of male friends who spent time in Okinawa, the stuff I've heard about "soapies" sound pretty fun. I want to buy an air mattress / tarp just to try it out. haha

 

I suppose "sensual massage" is as good a term as any.

I've discovered a woman only 15 minutes from my office who provides this in a "studio" attached to her home. She offers a full sensual experience, either 60 or 90 minutes, and being originally local to the area, is an English speaker.

I'm not looking for sex as such but being by nature wrapped a bit tightly anyway working in an extremely high-pressure profession, at middle-age I'm thinking as much about my health as about sexual release.

I'll only be here a few months and I'm not into casual sex.
I don't have time to pursue much social life anyway.

 

Well. That story turned me on.

 

me too

 

Agreed!

 

I hear an echo. I said that, but you didn't notice that part.

 

Cannot argue with that.

I'm sorta over it, for now at least.
A healthy sex drive will push a man into some weird things, given enough time.

 

I've done it quite a few times, and that's always how it is in DC and Florida, the way you described. Not sure where you went where it sucked, but the asian ladies are great at that. It's purely therapeutic and holistic relaxation to them. I always grab their tits though when they start stroking it.

Those women work hard and deserve a solid tip on top of the house fee for the massage.

Haven't been in awhile, over a year at least. Maybe that's why I'm so stressed. Think I'll go sunday.

 

She must be a massage therapist. The purely legit ones take offense to the ones that do that stuff. But I will tell you. As a male, you can go to the world's best massage therapist who won't touch your cock, and walk away feeling a little loose at best.

Go to a rub and tug, where it's a decent to good massage followed by being jerked off while just laying there? Ultimate full body relaxation.

So I guess I'd prefer 'sex workers'

 

Many (family and friends if they knew) would call this "sad" or "pathetic"..

Perhaps, but I'm single, middle-age, and hundreds of miles from home.
I'm here working, and will be for months.
This situation is typical for me.

I work long hours in an intensely stressful profession.
I have neither time nor energy for a social life.
No time to go out to bars, or public social events. And I have no interest in chasing casual sex.


As I said, I really don't go to these places thinking in terms of sex.
I'm not looking for intercourse or oral, wouldn't accept either if it were offered.
I will admit to the pleasure of being naked and vulnerable in the hands of the masseuse, especially during the bathing.

Following the table-shower, having the masseuse dry me, being led back into the massage room, experiencing that tiny bit of pampering is all very pleasant, a break from my routine.

I knew of course that in China and other parts of Asia this is just considered a traditional form of therapeutic relaxation. I've been told that when many of the Asian people who work in this business come here they are a bit mystified and amused that we here in America are so uptight about such things.

Prostitution and the risk of disease are one thing, this is something else entirely.

Truth.

 

I know what you mean.

I dated a guy for a while who introduced me to regular massages. He was really talented and knew what he was doing. What I mean is he was delicate on my bones and would work into my muscles, and I'm sure you know how clumsy some massages can be when a person doesn't know what they're doing. Anyway we would take turns and aways had sex right after the massages, sometimes incorporating the two. BEST relaxation ever. Now in my repertoire of skills

 

Hmmm, sounds interesting. Where do I find such a massage?

 

Craigslist > Services Offered > Theraputic Massage

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Your clue:
A storefront advertising "Massage" or "Asian Spa", etc.
The windows/glass storefront will always be covered with opaque tint film.
If they advertise late hours that's a pretty good clue.
Not all will have a table-shower service, but when they do you can be sure they're offering "a sensual experience".

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I have a fetish for foreplay involving massages, and I've noticed that girls if not exposed to the concept of it or don't like to be touched, need to be walked through the process, but then suddenly really let down their barriers once the process starts if they give it the benefit of the doubt.

Knowledge of human anatomy, muscles, bone structure, and the circulatory system really come in handy here. (For anybody interested in wanting to bridge academia with sex)

 

Jeezus christ, a bit of oil, it doesnt take very long at all to get a guy off, the right technique, under a minute really, its not anything, its not sex.

Fucking stupid trying to make them feel guilty about it, especially since it does have a lot to do with stress hence health and happiness.

The biggest whores are wives that wont do anything for their husbands, keep them angry and cranky to spend their money on a whole bunch of shit no one really needs.

I think all guys are going to eventually get fed up with the guilt thing and go anyway, especially when they are working all the time...then only to have those girls giggling while doing it, rather than that stupid oooh thats so disgusting, demeaning act

The guys have mentioned asian girls better at it, cos many of them havent been brought up in the abrahamic guilt based cultures.


Another reason its retarded is that they should pay for it at all, if it was about relieving back pain everyone would expect that to be subsidized by the government, i.e really everyone else...but because it has to do with their willy, its supposed to be like omg how evil.

Yet another reason why its so retarded; Teens getting exploited by McDonalds for 5 bucks an hour, 20+ hrs of work for what one of these women earn in 1/2 hr...in 60 secs really for what the guys are really going there for.

Much to do with what is wrong with the world, not just all the greedy CEOs out there, everything and anything any male does. Its also all the wives out there that give more of a crap about whether their husbands are getting a load off from some thai girl, more so than whether their kids or anyones elses kid is getting paid properly, crapping on about how important kids and family are, but then go rag on some kid behind the counter at McDonalds that didnt kiss their ass for a whole 5 bucks an hour