All, looking for advice. Have any of you set your wife up for an erotic massage? Not sex but just some erotic touching, grazing, etc? My wife has always got massages from women but have always wanted to get her an erotic massage with a male masseuse with some extra attention to get her juices flowing. Good idea, bad idea, or opening Pandoras box? I would only set it up with someone who would allow me to discreetly watch or video it. As a woman, what would you think if your husband did this? This may just have to stay in my fantasy world but always thinking of it.