Erotic Massage for Wife?

All, looking for advice. Have any of you set your wife up for an erotic massage? Not sex but just some erotic touching, grazing, etc? My wife has always got massages from women but have always wanted to get her an erotic massage with a male masseuse with some extra attention to get her juices flowing. Good idea, bad idea, or opening Pandoras box? I would only set it up with someone who would allow me to discreetly watch or video it. As a woman, what would you think if your husband did this? This may just have to stay in my fantasy world but always thinking of it.

 

As a massage therapist myself I'd suggest this is a bad idea. I have had husbands set up massage appointments for their wife, typically as a birthday present. If a lady has a preference for a female masseuse she is unlikely to welcome a male masseur. If she does it is entirely her choice what, if any, extra attention she gets. Some love extra attention, far more than their husband may have hoped for, but I doubt their husband gets to find out. But most of all it would be totally confidential, and no-one professional masseur is going to let you watch or film it.

 

Well, here's another one post and leave thread. But for those who are interested I have asked my spouse about this and she accepted the gift of a massage session. I've done this several times before. Beyond that she selected the gender that would provide the service and the session was private with only her and the provider in the room. No peeking without her permission. That's unethical and disrespectful to your spouse. If you want to do this be sure both the provider and your spouse would permit you to watch and or video the session. They decide what they will let you do. If it's a no, then what happens in the room stays in the room and is only revealed voluntarily. Until then it remains a fantasy.

 

Maybe you'd better do it yourself. Any massage courses will help you. And your wife will be happy

 

Coooooooo I love massages.I like receiving and giving them
Keep the activity amongst yourselves darling xxx
You will both enjoy the occasion more with no extra person problems .
It isn't hard to do .ooh did that sound right lol xxx
There is plenty of reference material out there and if you are an old fashioned kind of person like me,there are some good books

Enjoy darling xxx

 

this was a thing my bf wanted to do for a while, before we fully got into the sharing lifestyle. firstly, i dont think any male or female massage professional would let u watch or record, mine certainly didnt, i had to describe it to my bf when i got back. although mine was a specific erotic masseur that went pretty far with me. secondly, make sure ur wife knows about it and you've talked to her. if my bf didnt tell me and i went in thinking it was a regular massage, and ended up getting a man touching me everywhere i would have flipped out, but he talked to me about it and i wanted to indulge his kink. its a good idea tho, got me and my bf what we wanted and we've been sexually exploring more and more ever since, u should try it.

 

I would love my wife to get a "full service" massage...

 

Ask

 

only if I can watch

 

Give her one its not too difficult

 

Agreed without having tried but there could be some with certain conditions. If it was me I would not want to have my face on camera or a way to identify me.
Yet while off topic I was lucky to have two women let me film the action from carefully selected angles. One with a handjob and the other with a blowjob. Hot! And I use those recordings more often than porn online

 

my wife became good friends with the 28 year old guyanese man she was tutoring .She said he was very nice guy and i should get to know him ,. Well one day he came over while i was working on my computer . He offered to help ,i for got i had pics of wife in a thong and bathing suit .we scroled thru and there they were . His jaw dropped and said i was a lucky man .He said he gave great massages and he would exchange a massage for a lesson . i said i will ask the wife .
She said fine with limits . So as time went by they became very comfortable with each other and sharred massages with each other . so after a while as i was making dinner the massages lasted longer and longer .They both came down stairs face flushed ,. i was curious as to how it was going so asked each separately how it was going ,they both confessed to erotic massages and he said she loved the top . he told me she said i would be ok with it . I told him i was glad she had a friend like him .the following week the bed squeaked like crazy ,i learned they were trying kamasutra .I learned his cock was a little longer than mine but i was a little thicker . she was 58 he was 28 and made her feel young again , and i loved sloppy seconds

 

I would really, really, really suggest you discuss this with her before you do anything. Remember, this is YOUR fantasy, not hers. If she always gets messages from women, that's her preference. If my husband ever did this we'd have one hell of a fight.

 

You have to talk about that with her. the best thing is - you are there and you can watch the whole thing. yes - there are guys out there that do that. i love a hot erotic massage from a female or a male and one time my sub arranged 2 guys for an erotic massage in his hotel room and this was the best thing ever!

 

Why not offer her massage yourself?? Specifically Yoni massage, if its been done right its Amaaazing feeling.. Trust me

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Hmmm well of course you have to let her in on this or you’re putting her in an unfair position. I have had massages where the therapist massaged my breasts. It wasn’t “erotic” and it was discussed as an option before and I had to explicitly say I wanted it. It was a bit of a turn on in the moment though, as is when the therapists hands get a little close. So it could be something she finds fun too. I can’t imagine any therapist would let you film this though and you can’t do that without permission.

 

Tell your friends to use SV and nobody else for this type of membership so I don't have to deal with the GD figuring it out and yes, yes, yes!!
I have the same question about how to covertly develop a thing where I can say "Tonight 10:30 ok?" and she said, "Roger that throbbing member leader" or stuff like this so I can have guidance versus let's place dice with Chicago women.
As far as the above - thanks for the idea. NO
Now that guy will be a guy or goo but not goo so SVMark003 is who and others start at 001 no003 and I am nothing unless I need you. Do this start at 010 and nothing else. Keep me or not bed forever you will lose.

 

Yes discuss it ahead of time. We have done this and my wife really enjoyed it. The big issue is finding someone with real massage skills and the right attitude. It is all about her and she must feel comfortable with the person. Then it is her decision if it ever goes past thar.

 

A female friend of mine gets regular massages like I do. The kind where the aforementioned sex takes place. Her husband gave her a gift certificate the first time at a legit place and since then she migrated to an Amp. In the beginning she saw only female providers until a male provider was offered. She tried it and he brought her to orgasm she tells me. She eventually fucked him. All of this was between her and the masseur. They, the husband and wife, tell me that they have never had a couples massage much less a erotic one together.

A lot of people do not want others, including a spouse, watch the activity much less video it. it is up to the participants of the sex act whether or not they would allow themselves to be watched or filmed. If all of the participants are willing then go for it. But to make a condition that it can only happen this way or that is unethical. Besides, if a person, a wife, wants an erotic massage I feel they are more than capable of scheduling one with a provider on their own.

 

My fwb and I have traveled extensively and on occasion have couples massages. The majority of them have been totally clean but we always have a male for her and female for me. On one trip both masseuses were extremely hot and both of us were turned on. As he was massaging her, I could hear her moaning and breathing hard even though at that time her wasn’t touching any privates. As she turned over as i glanced the towel exposed her 36dd and her shaved pube. he started to massage her breasts and she told me later that she used the opportunity to rub her hand on his pants asking he was standing by her head and she could feel his hard on. Meanwhile my masseuse started to massage my cock . She started to blow him and then I heard her whisper fuck me. While he was fucking her my lady gave me a hand job. I came she came he came so it was a lot of fun. One day hope to repeat.