Erections- A double standard

Thanks..There is actually nine of us, five guys, four girls, all about the same age. We've been friends for years. The secret, I feel, of hiking, swimming, riding bikes or whatever naked with friends is to keep the relationships platonic. ..and we have. ..
It frees us to talk about everything imaginable from relationships, family, sex, work and on and on..but especially, enjoy the great outdoors together.
Getting back to the thread topic, we usually hike early in the morning. We've lived in this part of NC our whole lives and know the best and safest hiking trails.
Yes, like most men, first thing in the morning, these guys, at times, have erections...yes, even when we start hiking! I do enjoy seeing a guy walk with a good boner!
Being bi, I'm not offended by men and women friends being naked. Another woman with nice boobs or a great butt, or a guy who is well hung is all fine by me..

 

That truly sounds like the perfect life and friends to have! I wonder if it's being from South Africa that, that lifestyle seems so impossible to have AND if I'm just not meeting the right type of people. Mmmm...

 

Yeah I agree with everyone else, you do have the perfect life. I'm in my mid 50's now so the erection thing hasn't been a problem for more than 20 years now (miss you buddy) but to have a group of friends that you could all be nude around each other would be absolute heaven. Hell I would settle to have ONE friend that I could be nude around and it would be extra special if she were female. It sure would make this lifestyle not as lonely as it is now.

 

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience. I've gotten a number of responses similar to yours, to what I posted. I have come to realize, I've been blessed with some great friends who share my interests and values. It's sad that folks in their thirties, forties and fifties are not in similar situations. I'm sorry you feel lonely in this lifestyle. Hip Forums is filled with so many interesting people who can help, I'm sure, to fill that void a little, in your life..

 

This is true. I get it. We don't want it to be a sexual environment, especially if there are kids around (as nudism is supposed to be family friendly). Sometimes erections happen though, and when they do, we shouldn't make a big deal about it as long as you aren't flaunting it/

 

Honestly, the thing I've found, that has kept my eight naked friends and I together is respect for each other. We have never let sex get into the friendships. That's why this friendship has worked and continues to do so.
We are all about 27 or 28 and have known each other for almost ten years. I can say, without a doubt, our libidos are quite normal for people our age.....but we keep it in check whether we are hiking, swimming, riding bikes, walking, or just together, having a few beers and talking about our lives. .

 

I think it is just something that has to be accepted.

 

I've been on many nudist beaches over the decades, but I've never noticed a man with an erection.

Perhaps, they are good at hiding it. I know I would. In any case, it just doesn't happen to me unless there's some intimate contact.

For me, naturism doesn't have anything to do with sex. I don't regard a woman as being there for my gratification just because she not wearing a swimsuit.

 

My previous partner a fair bit younger than me was an exhibitionist as am I, the problem for men is they could get in big trouble if they get reported when doing it and also when he knew females were looking he'd get a stiffy.
because he was turned on, told him so did I but the difference was I'd just get wet.

 

Girls are a bit more lucky, your signs of arousal are far less overt than a boy’s is. An erect penis is a beacon, especially if you happen to have fairer skin. But a wet vulva is far less noticeable. So I think that if a girl gets aroused she could easily pass it off as just sweat, or simply it, concealing the evidence.

 

If that happens again make sure he's carrying a hat or a towel to cover it. Or get him to stand behind a leafy bush if he has to relieve himself. If the stiffy is one where he can pee it out.

 

It's a sad state of affairs, my 6 year old has had an erection at a resort does he get in trouble too?

 

No, he's of an age that is not a problem, but with full grown men it could be an issue

 

Have you had issues where your boy has had a boner at other resorts?
If so i'd avoid that resort until those managers grow up.

 

As previously stated it's my adult partner that gets aroused. I've been on many camps where young males get excited, boy only young boys under the age of 10 x

 

We've been to camps and you're right, that age group are the most aroused, pre puberty or just into puberty, I think them seeing mature women naked is so exciting for them and who can blame them, in fact, as a more mature woman I found it very flattering.
On one occasion I saw a young lad 14 or 15 looking at me with a full erection, I looked back and smiled and to my shock he evacuated.

 

Do you mean he left?

 

Puberty is a difficult part of life.

 

If i had kids with me at a nude resort i'd give them a talking to before going there about how they might get full hard ons that might be embarrassing for them.
I'd teach them to enter the toilets and to empty their full bladders first so they don't have a huge issue with boners.
The only ones they have to deal with are semis. So that they can pee it out rather than having to be embarrassed.

 

Agreed. Not sure why people think you can “pee it out.”

 

What's the difference? Often it's the same thing that triggers it (literally nothing in a lot of kids and adults).

Never had in issue, my 9 year old has had the same thing, and we've seen plenty of other boys get it too. It's a penis filled with blood, that's what they do sometimes.

It can happen at any age, it shows that everything is working down there. It's quite common for boys to get one simply from the penis swinging around when they jump etc.

That won't work. Both of my boys get semis frequently, it's still quite obvious just not rock hard. They aren't embarrassed about it they've known since day 1 it's normal. An erection shouldn't be any more embarrassing than being flaccid in fact it swings around less during normal movement and activity if anything.