When I was younger It was not hard for me to get erections now i find sex more boring its like the feel is about the same I just don't feel the same about it is there a way to reverse it. When i was getting oral sex i was not getting hard when I was having sex i was not getting hard when she started jacking me off i was maybe its masturbation that got me like this im used to something tighter i guess
Happens to everyone like that...just means yo healthy u was probably raised listening to butterfly by crazy town. thats not a bad thing.
Right you are! When we use the same technique every time we masturbate (for guys that's usually the jackhammer death grip) we habituate to that. No one's mouth is capable of matching a hand's grip or speed. For now, masturbate less. And when you do, vary your methods. In sex, switch it up. Maybe something as simple as different positions could help. Add in new elements; toys, roleplay, etc. You'll get your mojo back.
