I was complaining to my wife about this (AKA blue balls). She never heard of it. I had to show her a wikipedia article that EH was a serious condition needed correcting. I first had an attack on date in high school and scared me as I was sure something was wrong. Probably a male only thing. I have not heard of females complaining of anything similar.
I've heard of blue balls but never experienced it. Did he relieve remedy the condition or did you have to take the problem in hand?