I used to love to watch my wife using a vibrator or dildo on herself.She told me that she would like to see me masturbating with toys too, so I gave her a great show. I started with rubbing a vibrator all over with a buttplug in my ass, graduating to a large dildo fucking my ass until I exploded all over myself Where I thought she would admonish me for showing my true kinky ways, she said that she loved seeing me be so free and enjoying myself like that. To this day,she still tells me to go fuck myself. Does your wife like to watch you, as you would like to watch her?
I've never enjoyed a toy with my wife watching, and likewise her. The only time we've done that is with making videos and sending them to each other. And even that's extremely rare. We both think it's very hot watching the videos of each other. Yet, have never done it in person in all our years together. We're 4 hours from each other, so when we get together we're like rabbits and never really think about it lol. Watching her play and squirt for me is so damn hot! I'll have to try to remember one of these future times, to have her do it in person, and likewise!!
I've done that numerous times. Riding it on the edge of the tub and blowing everywhere, or laying on my back and covering myself. Fun!!
My girlfriend knows I'm very kinky and open minded. She just gets turned on knowing I'm loving something. Normally she uses the toys on me. I haven't really tried using the toys without her, unless I'm by myself. I haven't ever wanked in front of her unless I'm finishing on her tits or something, she likes being involved too much.