In my fifty's I have found myself wanting to have sex with guys but only mutual wanking,I have tried sucking another guy but it just doesn't appeal to me for some reason,not into anal or kissing either but get horny just sitting in the car in a layby Hoping to meet another guy for a horny mutual wank.any guys feel like this
My male friend and I enjoy each other sexually. I myself enjoy the touching of one another and giving him oral. He on the other hand is ok with occasional touching and don't prefer giving oral on me but loves mostly like you just getting off together or getting each other off
I really like oral, but am quite amenable to cockstroking, too. Not so much into a car in a layby, though, I prefer my comforts; a massage table, warm oil, nice lighting, soft music...
You shouldn't need our approval or feel the need to model your behavior on our practices. Just do what you genuinely enjoy. It's called personal freedom. Not every bi-sexual wants to bottom, and not every bottom wants to power-bottom. The same goes for wanking, mutual wanking, sucking, and mutual sucking (69). As for rest stops (laybys), I was sitting naked once in my vehicle, apart from other vehicles, in hot weather off a rural highway when someone appeared at my open window to inform me, a disconnected traveler, about a court decision that had just appeared on the news. After a few minutes of stimulating conversation, my shrunken flaccid penis predictably grew into an erection, and he asked if he could reach in and "do the honors". And no, I didn't mind cleaning up after he left. So don't dismiss the possibility of a very enjoyable "reach-in" at your chosen layby.
In all my years I've never once just "wanked" with any of the approx. 100 men I've been with. I was hooking up with other married men, we we're tired of jerking off (wives not putting out) and desired a wet, warm, mouth sucking our cocks.
Interesting viewpoint. Makes sense to me, but personally, I would much prefer to have a partner even just lightly fingering and squeezing my glans than vigorously wanking myself in private.
I don't thing I have ever 'just' masturbated with another guy. Smile, I have on occasion assisted a guy with hand and mouth stimulation to achieve his goal.