Encouragement to try BI

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by topper, Jun 11, 2024.

  1. topper

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    Has anyone here been introduced or encouraged to try some bi fun. I mean "FUN"? Like many horny men we all (many) wouldn't mind seeing their wife mixing it up with another woman. How about the other way around? Anyone with a wife who encouraged you to try sucking another guy? My wife almost insisted that she gets to watch. Eventually I kept my end of our bargain. She watched my second exprience and was on the edge of her seat for the whole thing.. Lick it, suck the head while stroking the shaft, how much can you take in your mouth? When I swallowed him all the way down my throat, she had a look of amazement on her face and didn't say anything. else. I used her old trick and let the cum just fall out of my mouth back onto him, instead of swallowing.. I wasn't quite sure of her reaction, but she said "She Loved it" and she was happy I kept my end. My friends wife felt the same way. Have you had support in your Bi experiences?
     
  2. Bazz888

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    I reckon we aren't even in the same country, let alone same locality and, no, I haven't received any support or encouragement.
    Not even any conversation about it.
    However, I would like to meet a couple and play with both of them in whatever way would turn them on, especially the lady :)
     
  3. John1971

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    I wish I'd get some encouragement, because I'd do it in a heartbeat if I did. But my wife would never do that.
     
  4. Well I'm curious

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    Yeah, she's never mentioned it.
    Funny thing she knows I would encourage her to have sex with a female, ok I've always put it in the context that it's a threesome but still she could have open slather to do as she pleases with a woman in that scenario.

    If she somehow surprised me by arranging a threesome with another guy then I would see where it leads or see if she leads me to engage with him. I think I could be pretty versatile in a Bi situation if I had the chance

    If not, I think If she just wanted to to have the two of us focus on her then I might go with it. I once thought there might be boundaries if we had an MFM but I'm more open to letting her be herself if it happened. It might be that one off experience where we get hot and horny and just enjoy her fucking someone else
     
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  5. topper

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    That's what I thought for decades. When my wife witnessed our gay friend sucking his partners cock her attitude changed. She said that I should let him give me a bj. After a while, wife was done with sex and I was desperate. When I told her I would give it a try, she got all excited.
     
  6. Sigurdsson

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    Hi my wife knows I'm Bi and she pegs me and will use a dildo on me but it's still not the real thing and I miss having a guy cum in my mouth or in my ass. She will not let me go outside our marriage to take care of my needs so I just stay frustrated and yes I can and do have sex with her but it's not the same
     
  7. Traveler386

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    Not my wife and not exactly but quite a few years ago I was causal friends with a girl on a forum kinda like this. I was extremely bicurious at the time but had never mentioned it on any posts. I had only told another girl I was chatting with and she was repulsed and it pretty much ended us talking so I didn’t share my curiosity at all. Well I happened to look back at the girls past posts on that forum and it turns out she was really into bi guys and pretty graphic about what she liked.
    I kinda knew she was into me and when I ask her about her “fetish” she denied it and said it was just made up. She didn’t want to ruin anything with me which I understood. I told her pretty quick I was very bicurious and she was kinda in disbelief I guess. She (and I) really wanted to make something happen but we never did. I met my wife and we eventually quit talking. She had a whole list of things she wanted to do if we had made it work though.
     
  8. Well I'm curious

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    It's a shame you did not have an opportunity to let it play out before you settled down.
    You might have enjoyed to opportunity or done some stuff that others won't be into
     
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  9. Jander

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    Married for 24 years and been bi for all of them. I've had fun with a guy a few times though it's difficult finding someone. She wants to watch my next experience but having trouble finding someone.
     
  10. Well I'm curious

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    At least if she approves it should be easier to be openly looking.
     
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  11. Traveler386

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    yeah I wish I had been able more emotionally mature where I could have explored a side of myself I might have enjoyed without the “am I gay” crap.
     
  12. topper

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    I think that finding someone is the toughest part. My wife is the one who set thing up with our friend and expected me to return the favor. My wife was there to watch when I did. She was into it and it was exciting having her be a part of it .
     
  13. GregS

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    My wife used dildos on me occasionally. She saw how much I enjoyed it. I had used a dildo on her a few times, but she always said a real dick felt a lot better. She started saying that if I thought a dildo was good, I should try the real thing. She would like to watch my expression when a real dick first started sliding in me. She figured my eyes would roll back. She also told me I should try sucking a guy off until he cums in my mouth since I enjoyed doing oral on her.

    I finally connected with a man on Silverdaddies and after meeting with him a few times at a restaurant we decided to have sex. I told my wife about it and she said go for it, but while she wanted to watch my face, she didn't think she could actually handle being there.

    We got together and I used my cell phone to video part of it. OMG. It did feel so much better. My eyes did roll back. When she watched the video her comment was, see I was right. She asked if I had sucked him and I had, but only for a bit. I wanted to make sure he could cum in me. I have since learned he is a one and done guy.

    My wife and I still have sex several times a week and we both enjoy it and the kissing and cuddling. With my friend we get together usually once a week and either suck or fuck each other. No kissing or cuddling , it's just a type of sex I can't get from my wife. If my wife is home she just says hi and stays away from the guest room.

    I am truly grateful to have such an understanding wife.
     
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  14. FriendlyCock

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    My wife is supportive of my cock sucking, as rare as it is but uses it alone more nail in the coffin of our sexlife. She doesn't need to try because now and then I am sucked off and suck one, and I pull myself a lot between times. She would never consider a bi friend that she and I could both suck with. She has vaginismus but her mouth works fine, it works too well at other times, and I'd love to show her how I suck a cock and how he'd suck me.
     
  15. LowHangers

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    Having an understanding, supportive wife is something I've always been grateful of.
     
  16. MustacheMan2020

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    Me and my partner have talked about it. During some pillow talk she asked if I would take a real dick and suck one. I admitted that I would do both. She was understanding of the idea and thought we should find someone. Time has passed now and she's not interested in sex as much. Admittingly, mine has dwindled some as well. But I will always want to try the real thing and it's great that I have her support.
     
  17. topper

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    My wife has no sexual interests for herself, except for the occasional pegging me. Other then that , both my friend and myself were told by the wives that we should just go downstairs and give each other blowjobs and get it out of our system.
     
  18. MustacheMan2020

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    I'm sure it's not getting it out of your system if it's good and repeated later. But if I had someone I trusted to get this release, I would welcome it, with her support.
     
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  19. topper

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    We try to work it out of our system, whenever we can find time together. We worked on it, over the weekend.
     
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  20. dd788snipe

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    You are very fortunate Greg. Most of us would love to have wives and or girl friends like that.
     
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