I’ve never been with a guy but fantasize about it. I always imagine getting fucked for the first time and the joy and release of finally doing it after so many years of fantasizing about it. Has anyone finally been with a man and bottomed after years of fantasy? Is it the emotional release I imagine?
It could be or it could be a great disappointment. I was being fucked way before I even knew what a fantasy was and depending on the guy fucking me, I felt... comfortable as well as a kind of joy to feel him cumming inside of me. I know guys who had the fantasy and some found that the real thing left something to be desired and I think because they picked the "wrong guy" to bottom for. It's my belief that having the fantasy creates scenarios that tend to not match up with the reality of things and when they don't, it leaves a guy disillusioned. Which could you experience? It's hard to say other than to hope that it gives you the emotional release you've been imagining.
A very measured and helpful response. I’m hearing that it’s best to enter into the experience and take it as it comes.
Yes, that's the best way. It's really okay to imagine what it's gonna be like as long as you understand that, again, the reality might not match what you've imagined. You want the right guy in the right place and at the right time to take your cherry so you find both the pleasure and emotional release. I'm not gonna blow smoke up your ass: It'll either be the greatest thing you've ever experienced or an unimagined nightmare. And it might take being screwed a few times before you find the pleasure and emotional release so don't let one "failure" mess thing up for you. You might want to get some dildos, lube, etc., and learn how to properly clean yourself so that when the real time comes, you'll be better prepared.
It was, as I said, comfortable; a guy could be screwing and I would be feeling so good and comfortable that sometimes, I'd nod off to sleep for a moment or two - or until the guy screams that he's gonna shoot and, yeah, I can feel his dick pulsing and I know his cum is going in me and I... feel some kind of way about it that isn't "good" (he's fucking and creaming me like I'm a girl) but not bad because I'm still very much male but able to enjoy sex in a way most guys are afraid to. I still had to get the right guy and the right time and place and not all guys could make me feel all warm and fuzzy with their cock hammering away inside of me but when all the "stars aligned," I really liked being screwed until, one day, I realized that I was being screwed - and by a guy with the longest dick I've ever seen, let alone had - and... it wasn't fun for me. That's when I also realized that I didn't have to let every guy I ran into fuck me so I pick my moments and I know how to be in that comfortable place since I know what it feels like. Keep in mind that I got hooked on dick when I was nine so I had a lot of years - and a lot of dicks in my ass - to find the pleasure and the deeper emotional things I would feel during a good fucking. It was just that it wasn't until I was an adult when I learned that giving my ass up to everyone was no longer my idea of a good time.
It is so very much more than you can possibly imagine -- the only way you'll ever know is to get it there yourself ...
