If you are so worried then stop being a complete moron and trying to get a diagnosis from these people on this board. Go see a doctor, who knows, you may have rectal cancer and they may catch it early enough...
wow, okay, i'm not necessarily medically concerned...i wanted to see if this was at all normal for a first timer. don't jump all over me. if i thought there was something dire to attend to, i would go see a doctor.
Everyone is telling you its not normal so obiviously its not normal. No one here has said they have experienced that with anal sex, so if you are worried about it go to a doctor. People here don't know what to tell you and probably won't know either.
right...but how was i supposed to know that before posting? that's why i posted. it's not like i'm still looking for an answer, unless someone has something constructive and different to offer. give me a break! it was just a question!
I've heard of something like this that had to do with anal sex, but it was a vaginal discharge. It turned out that the girl's boyfriend wasn't cleaning his dick before going from anal to vaginal. She got salmanella in her vagina. I'm not sure if this helps, but I thought I'd mention it. Have you been feeling sick at all?
no, i've never let him go ass to vag and definitely not ass to mouth (haha). i'm not necessarily medically concerned as i mentioned earlier, because this only lasts about a day after we have anal. next time i'm going to try to make sure i'm as clean as possible, even though this past time i thought i was pretty cleaned up beforehand. everyone seems to think that i'm looking for a medical opinion! haha. i'm really not that worried...it's just embarrassing!
I understand that you are not looking for medical, I just thought I should add that in, just in case. Someone posted above that you should try an enema, that's a good idea. Just go ahead and clean it all out. I myself am kind of a prude and would say that maybe you should wait until you are at a higher level with this guy before you allow yourself to be in such a vulnerable possition, but I know that's not how most people think. I wish you the best of luck.
Just because you weren't looking for a medical opinion doesn't mean that it's not a medical problem. The thing that concerns me is that you have two sphincters, one that you can control and one that you can't. I'm thinking that your involentary sphincter isn't closing properly, and that may be something you should see a doctor about regardless of if you think that its bad or not. Small things like this often start, and are ignored, before a serious medical condition makes itself known.
I'm not jumping all over you, I'm trying to give you sound advise. Bottom line is, if you are not sure of something out of place with your body, have it checked out by a medical professional. The small non seemingly problematic symptoms can lead to worse things. Example, I had a side ache 6 years ago. By the time I went to the emergency room 6 days later, they had my intestines laying out all over the med table with doctors cleaning them because my appendix had exploded 4 days prior. I almost died, not only from that, I during the healing process I was infected with septic poisoning, which means the infection made it to my blood stream.
If he is releasing precum this could be mixing with any excrement within the anal passage & being released at the point of withdrawal. It doesn't have to be a full ejaculation.
I still don't think this is normal. But I'm going to my doctor in the next little while, I'll ask him.
The anus is not designed for things to enter, let alone for intercourse. It's not healthy at all, I don't care what the quack sex "experts" say. It cannot self-lubricate and the rectal lining is much more delicate than the vaginal lining. So anytime you stick something up there you are going to be causing irritation and abrasions that can become infected, or at the very least cause bacteria from the anus to enter the bloodstream. So maybe you might want to rethink doing what you're doing.
Humans do a lot of stuff that we were not designed for. The teeth were not designed for all the sugar we consume. The intestines were not designed for all the red meat and fat that we consume. The brain was not designed for all the wine that we consume. It's not healthy at all. And despite suffering consequences from using our bodies for which they were not designed, we continue to do so. Guess it is all part of being human.