Elderly gay/bi male "stigma"

Fellows:

In "mainstream" day-to-day life, I have, all too often, seen elderly folks either pretty much ignored or, even worse, treated as annoyances.

For elderly (75 plus) gay/bi men this can be an exceptionally trying and depressing time.

Think about it: how many YOUNGER men have health/performance issues?

Certainly, issues such as these are NOT limited to elderly men (of whatever persuasion)

If a gay/bi man is still in reasonably good health, and is the kind of guy you enjoy being with (in both an emotional and physical sense) why let AGE be an issue?

Personally, I have found many "elderly" men to be as hot (if not hotter) than a number of men many years their junior.

If we are lucky enough to be granted a long life, we WILL eventually get OLD, and......think about this.....don't we STILL want to be RESPECTED and LOVED?

Regardless whether we're in a platonic or sexual relationship.......regardless of an age difference.....all that REALLY matters are the feelings of MUTUAL respect and friendship.

NO ONE wants to be cast aside just because he is considered "too old"........we ALL have to be there for one another!

Regards,

John

 

hi John, sure many younger guys are not turned on by older ones.....we are all different in our likes and desires. I'm 70 and like younger tops, and have enjoyed many many sessions with guys, mostly 19 - 40. But I know if the situation was reversed I would not look for a 70 year old to fuck.

So thankfully there are many youngers who do actually either target older guys or are just not bothered by age as a factor so long as the guy is attractive to them.

The last four years since I started PrEP I have averaged 4/5 meets a week with different guys and love a good dominant skilled top. I find the young guys today not only capable with good stamina, but always able to get it up, unlike some of the occasional older 45+ guys I meet who can be quite a disappointment.....so many relying/obsessed with amyl/poppers. I have had some older guys who can only perform by having live porn on an ipad beside them!

Whether i will still be able to be both as active, or attract younger guys in the years ahead I can't say but certainly hope so by keeping fit and maintaining my body.

Simon

 

Simon:

IMHO, age has only been a number.

I think it is pretty much a given that, regardless of age, some guys can prove to be QUITE impressive when it comes to m/m action. while others are, let's just say, "ho-hum", regardless of age.

There are younger guys that you THINK are going to make for a REAL hot time, and, in the end, it's a disappointment.

On the flip side, you might see an older senior dude (70-plus) that could QUITE surprise you with his stamina and "technique"!

Every one of us guys gets "turned on" in different ways; none of us are exactly alike.

All I can say is, DO what YOU like (or, should that be, do WHO you like!) and remember that you have ONLY yourself to satisfy, and should do what turns YOU on!

All the best to you in your "meetings"........

Regards,

John

Regards,

John

 

Have always had a thing for older guys. When I was 18 it was 30-50 yr olds but now I am 58 and that age has change to 40-75 and would go higher if they still were up for an energetic bottom. But of course if they showed interest I wouldn't kick a 20 yr old out of bed

 

I hear you, man!

Awhile back, on one of the "senior daddy" sites, there was a jaw-dropping picture of this 90-year old "coffin dodger" (as he described himself) who had an 11" cock, sticking straight up out of the fly of his boxers!

He was looking for both bottom and top buds, and, clearly, wasn't letting a little thing like old age "keep him down", so to speak!

Just this past summer, while buying the paper, this chunky old bear (easily over 80) came into the store with his walker.

Being a die-hard ass man, I could NOT believe how big and round his butt was!

Needless to say, I was doing a LOT of serious whacking thinking about spanking and fucking that big hairy senior daddy ass, for quite awhile afterwards!

On the flip side, I sure as hell would not say "no" to a hot young stud (let's say about 19 or 20) who was damn well hung and had a killer butt as a bonus!

Regards,

John

 

Don't care about the age ... Is he sweet , funny , passionate, even if he can't get it up can he make me felt good about myself.. if so give me the dick and I will drain it even if it doesn't get a full erection

 

......sounds like you got your act pretty well together!

Regards,

John

 

Damn, that's hot!

A fifty year-age difference REALLY has to make the action all the hotter!

Hope you continue to have hot inter-generational m/m fun in the New Year!

Regards,

John

 

I can only say that only once have I been with a guy who was considerably older than I. It was a few years ago. He answered an ad I had on CL. I drove a few blocks from my house to pick him up. I'd say he was a good 11-12 yrs older than me, maybe as much as 15...hard to tell. Anyway, I had him drop his pants and underwear and sit in a chair next to my computer where I had strategically loaded blowjob porn...lol. I took his cock in my mouth and he moaned. Then he said, "Ooooh. It feels like a wet and warm pussy!" I started sucking him and he kept moaning and pushing against the back of the chair - I thought he was going to break it! It only took a few minutes and he shot a little load in my mouth, which I swallowed. I drove him back to his car and on the way back home it dawned on me. Judging from what he said, that might have been his first blowjob. If so, too bad he had to wait that long to experience one. At least he enjoyed it. I never got together with him again but I wouldn't have minded it. He was a decent old guy who really appreciated what I could do for him.

 

I've always preferred older guys and wouldn't have any problems having sex with someone in their 70s - the only issue for me would be if they had erectile issues as I do love to be penetrated by a hard cock... I know for a fact lots of men prefer older guys, and the older guys I've met seem to have had little difficulty meeting younger guys. Maybe more a problem for bottoms than for tops?

 

.......I've long preferred older men to younger (I'm 65); older men in business suits, in particular, still get e rock-hard.

I've seen guys in their 70's whose butts (I'm a BIG-time ass-man) were far hotter than any man half their age.

An older guy whose pretty well hung and also has a nice, meaty butt is OK with e!

I was close "phone buds" with this fellow from Florida for a few years; this guy was then in his early 90's and was still as randy as hell, and had no problems maintaining a full erection; he was still getting m/m"getting action" from several gay/bi fuck buddies several times a week, before he had to go into assisted living.

The youngest of these men was 65, the oldest, 80.

This old (gay) gent (93 when he passed, RIP) LOVED cock and LOVED man-sex, and, had he not caught caught pneumonia, might still be "getting it on" today.

He was a LOT of fun to talk to, and was still pretty sharp for his age, being able to discuss (in detail) any of a number of subjects.

We had a LOT of hot phone sex, and I could tell he was really wishing he could try out my 9" cock!

Anyway, "old age" is far too much of a "stigma" in too many aspects of our daily lives these days; to me, age is but a number.

Far too much "age discrimination" these days, IMHO.

If a person is in good health, just "go with the flow", and enjoy!

 

Amen, brother!

Even though I am now in my mid-60's, I STILL find myself strongly attracted to older men, especially if they have nice-looking butts!

All kidding aside, if you are experience both a strong EMOTIONAL and PHYSICAL connection to the man you are with, you've got it all!

 

Not only our own satisfaction but also our partners... It takes two to party (at least!) and good sex imho is when both are having mutual pleasure.....

thanks for your kind words....it has helped the last two and a half years that I have been mobile and travelling......new blood in town is always of interest to townsfolk.....

This week only three meets but that might improve. I'm always interested and willing to meet younger horny slim tops......yesterday a 27 y o mature student made a six hour return train trip to come and visit me at my beach cottage here in Gokarna, India ...and wow what a big cock he had with maybe the largest pair of balls I have seen......weighing his sac in my hand was a turn on on it's own. He fucked me twice (lunch inbetween) and twice gave me lovely creamy mouthfuls!

Long live sex fun,

Simon

 

It is very hard to meet an elderly bi/gay close to my age. Many young ones answer ads even though it is clear only older gents need to answer.