I have ejaculated while getting a massage. I was lying face down, and the masseur was focusing on my buttocks and inner thighs, and I orgasmed without an erection.
I have read the other responses with interest. I have never ejaculated spontaneously, either awake or asleep and I have not ejaculated from having being stimulated anally. I have ejaculated when soft after I had been drinking and returned home to find I had drunk enough to have bewers' droop but not enough to stop being horny so I masturbated, didn't get more than semi-erect, but still got and orgasm and ejaculation. I was also interested to read that other people had found anal stimulation made them go soft. That was my experience the one time I tried it on myself many years ago and, when it had that effect, I gave it. Perhaps I might have got something interesting had I continued.
I have experienced ejaculation in a flaccid state but it may be better characterized as precum flowing from a stimulated prostate. I use a wand to work my prostate and it usually gets the precum flowing though it isn't necessarily associated with orgasm. It's isn't strictly speaking ejaculation...
When I have needed to come off quickly, frustrated but no privacy, etc, I use a handheld massager, a large professional one for neck and muscle pain, then I come easily before I get erect. If I have time it's a real buzz, pardon the pun but edging with that doesn't work. It's far too intense but that feels amazing.
I'm always flaccid when ejaculating when I have prostate orgasms. When I stroke myself to orgasm I'm erect...
I used to believe that I had to be erect to cum. Was reading an erotic story online while my thumb was caressing the soft head. I was completely flaccid when I just began cumming. It totally caught me by surprise. It felt so good, and I just kept rubbing the head until it stopped.
Yes. It is a great feeling hard or soft. I like both but soft is fun too. It's the idea you can cum without the need to be erect. I have also practised hands free and still learning to cum with no manual stimulation and staying soft.
When by myself I never managed to reach orgasm when not staying hard. A handful of times I stayed soft a fair amount of time during a handjob when other things failed, I got semi hard at best. But once the orgasm got close it became hard very fast, and immediately soft after. Never stayed soft while orgasming. Those were not satisfying orgasms.
I have a couple of times. All were after I masturbated normally, almost till completion, and then got side tracked long enough to go soft again. Massaged my soft penis a little and it came out flowing. Amazingly it didn't make me lose arousal so I was able to keep going.
I had an ex partner who would do this often. If I flashed him in public or something like that it would set him off lol
Im getting older now and use electro stimulation to cum ! I will put a probe in my asshole and a electro sound in my eurethra ! I will then shock the hell out of my cock from inside-out and the electricity running from inside my asshole through my prostate and through my cock to my eurethra will make me cum hands free !
I have cum while still flaccid through wanking, usually if I have been very aroused talking about sex with friends etc. I would often have so much precum after being out with a mate talking about sex I would have a damp patch in my underwear, or trousers if I wasn't wearing any underwear. I have also cum flaccid when I was getting a blowjob from my other half, she had been teasing me about it all day, we were in the cinema and were the only people there, I popped my soft penis out she took it in her mouth and after a few strokes up and down with her lips before I was anywhere near erect I came in her mouth.
I used to write a lot of erotic stories, sometimes sitting naked at my computer. My cock would vary between being erect and flaccid and usually left a puddle of precum on the seat. Sometimes after finishing the story, I would rub my flaccid cock and ejaculate pretty quickly.
I have ejaculated & orgasmed with a flaccid or semi flaccid penis. I find its not as enjoyable as when I'm full erect.