Once a few years back I was working out of town for about a month. My lady and I sexted the entire time and she made me promise not to cum until I came home so she could do it for me. Longest time I ever hadn't came and I was literally "leaking" sometimes at any point during the day. I've never thought about sex so much in my life
I've been suffering with ED for some time now thanks to some health issues. But the wife still gladly goes down on me and I can still cum with no issues. Or I can cum by stroking even though I do not get hard.
A man I was seeing in his late 50s stopped having regular erections. They went from hard and standing up at an angle to semi soft and pointed downward. I didn't think it would work but when I used my hand on him he did ejaculate. I decided to try oral. It appeared soft but when I got it in my mouth it was actually very hard but still pointed down. He refused to see a doctor and I moved on.
I've always masturbated by humping the bed, and always with a mostly soft cock by choice. I get hard fine.
I've had this happen to an old BF years back. I started to go down on him while he was soft and about 30 seconds later he came while still soft. Caught me off guard and chocked me.
I’m 69 and haven’t had a good erection in several years but I inject testosterone once a week and it makes me think about sex all the time so I masturbate every day but I ejaculate two or three times a week with a flaccid or semi erect penis
I have had amazing climaxes with a flaccid cock. Usually after a long edging session (several hours) it will go a bit limp but my arousal will remain at the same level as when it was hard. It always happened after leaving it alone in the flaccid state a minute or two, then vigorously masturbating it (rubbing the foreskin over the head and at the back or corona of the head) - it is almost like it tries to get hard to cum, but the orgasm happens before it can come fully erect. E. g. it starts swelling back up to hardness but I go into ecstasy before it can reach full erection. It still shoots just as much semen.
Very often ejaculate when flacid, when reading erotic stories or watching porn for over an hour or so, sometimes without touching my penis at all, but always feels the same intence orgasm as normal,
I have always had a problem with premature ejaculation which has followed me into older age. Age and injury has shrunken my penis to what would be considered tiny by most people and my version of an erection is a sort of almost chubby we’re my dick swells a bit before I cum. I don’t hang, I just kind of poke out of my scrotum and inch or two..and I mean it sticks straight out which causes me lots of problems. I get just as excited as I always have and cum just as easily even though my penis is limp. For me it’s a head game I gave up on, I just accept my fate and let my wife have fun with the situation and it has become part of our sex life. Cumming with a limp penis , particularly when you have a limp small penis and can blow your load often without outside stimulation provides some interesting situations. I can lay on the bed naked anticipating my wife coming out of the shower for instance and when she walks in and kisses me I usually can’t control it and I cum spontaneously (I then can take care of her for a long time).
I've orgasmed dozens of times flaccid. All while enjoying prostate and anal play. A slightly different feeling, but still amazing.
This is my situation at 69 -> 70, in fact for the past 12 years or so. It's basically impossible to get an erection. Not that it doesn't feel good to come when soft but I really wish that I could go back to the "good old days.."
Yeah. Typically after I’ve been drinking too much and my wife is just finishing me off with a handy. Feels good. She hates it.
As an old co-worker said in '78. "When I was young and in my prime, I had a hard on all the time. Now I'm old and turning gray, I'm lucky to get one once a day.." Truth. It stinks to get old.
My favorite bj that I gave was a guy who couldn't get hard, he was the biggest and best tasting cummer
I had blowjobs and handjobs where I was not hard but not completely soft. It still felt nice enough and when I was very near ejaculation it got fully erect just in time. Not as good as being hard from the start and staying that way but still a relief. I tried intercourse after going soft with a fwb once. It went in soft and it got partially hard, I orgasmed immediately, and to my surprise, she did too