hi peeps, bascially, i am 18 and starting to get in my first relationship. It is a long distance relationship but I am trying to go down and see her, but I am kind of nervous that I will ejaculate too fast! I have a foot fetish and I have asked her if i can do stuff with her feet and all that and she is fine with it, so she might give me a footjob if im lucky. but because i have such an obsession with feet, i might cum too quickly... but not just with feet, if she does anything or we have sex for the time then i am getting the feeling i will cum too quickly aswell. i mean, do girls hate it when guys cum too fast when theyre "snuggling" with each other or dont some mind? and is there any way to control it and make myself not cum too quickly during that time? please, i need some advice, but no nasty comments please! Thanks, Dan
Hey buddy, Most of us guys worry about this sort of thing, so don't worry. You're probably going to feel pretty anxious, so the best thing to do is try and relax as much as possible. Unfortunately, I don't think women appreciate guys who cum too quickly then have to stop, if however you're able to take a quick break and maintain the mood, and then try again, that's definitely not too bad. What I've found works, is to concentrate on other non sexual things if you feel yourself getting there, or just break the rythm and tensing up down there also seems to help. Otherwise, you could play it safe and make sure you masturbate earlier that day, so you'll be less sensitive and less likely to cum early. Good luck!
Sigh. Why does your profile say you're 24? No offence, but I suggest you focus on the basics before even thinking about obsessing over feet. You might even find that it's not your thing at all, if you've gotten the idea from watching too much porn.
My first time with a girl, I came pretty fast. But then a few minutes later we did it again, and fucked for a long, long time before I came. When I was your age, twice a night wasn't a big deal. When you get older you actually find it harder to cum. It feels good, but I now have a much harder time reaching climax than I did before. Not sure why.
in addition to masturbating before hand, have You tried slowing the pace as You feel it happening? if You want to do this and mask it, stop and change position. You could also stop to go down on her or finger her so her pleasure isn't paused while You regain Your composure. / also, when masturbating, if You delay it, Your dick will get used to longer erections, so, in the same way, pause the porn as You get closer, let it go down a little, start again. don't cum from masturbating until You're happy You've masturbated as long as You think a girl would like to have sex for.
