Edging masturbation

Out of curiosity, how many of you, man or woman, have done prolonged edging masturbation? Have you ever done it and finished during sex?

 

I've done it many, many times -- from long before the internet, before it was known as 'edging'.

 

Me too, since I was 24. Trying to not wear any underwear and edge like I used to. Gonna go for 3 weeks with no underwear and tons of edging and see how it goes.

 

I edge every time that I masturbate. I always edge for 2 or 3 hours before allowing myself to cum. My longest "edging" session was just shy of 12 hours. When I finally let myself reach orgasm it felt FUCKING AMAZING!!! It felt like I kept cumming forever!!!!

 

Do edge every day. It's the way i enjoy masturbation the most

 

I've done it pretty often, but to answer your question, it's not something I'd do if I knew I was going to have sex soon after.

I've definitely edged for days many many times. If I plan to not finish (and continue into the next day), I'll usually make sure I stop a few hours before sleep, so it doesn't affect sleep too much.

 

I’ve done this before, but regardless of when I stop, it affects my sleep. Either can’t stop dry humping the bed, or very vivid sex dreams and I wake up with a hard raging boner. Not complaining though. Except for the being overly tired, I love being that horny!

 

Since my mid-twenties. The reason I learned prologued masturbation was because of the fall from the cliff effect that comes with ejaculation. I was lucky that someone taught me and coached me on how to really enjoy masturbation several times day. It has helped with ejaculation control. Pleasure through ejaculation lasts for several seconds, and edging gives the opportunity to really enjoy masturbation versus achieving an ejaculatory goal.

 

Prolonging orgasm is a much-needed things for both men and women; I'll explain.

I knew a woman once who had problems with masturbating herself. I didn't know her well - we'd met about 4 or 5 times.
She mentioned that she hadn't had sex for about 20 years, and I thought she was basically asking me for it.
Jokingly I suggested she should masturbate more often but she explained that she thought it was immoral and dirty and so she didn't do it.

A long interesting chat ensued and, because she wouldn't speak to her doctor, I vowed to ask min when I saw her next time.
I'll list the key points in bullet point form for easy reading.

1. Men and women should be masturbating at least once a day.
2. The arousal stage (used to be called plateau stage), should be maintained for at least 20 minutes but longer if you have time.
She said long arousal enables the brain to release more and more chemicals and hormones before orgasm and when you do finally cum, the orgasm fires them all over the brain to where they are needed.
(That is a layperson description she gave me, for easier understanding).

3. She said my friend should do that even on days when she would have sex though to do it either a few hours before or a few after having sex so she always would start from the beginning.
4. She suggested to avoid toys for that specific occasion so her build-up isn't shortened but that she could use them when she had other orgasms.
5. Her advice (for women) was needed more per older age group.
Younger women seem to masturbate enough and often, whereas women over 45 and those post-menopause need to be encouraged to do it.
When libido tails off, it may require more effort to get started (many women put it off through lack of interest or because they "don't have time"), but it's important they keep doing it - as routinely as (daily) brushing of teeth because it can help delay or fend off vaginal dryness and loss of vaginal elasticity, both of which can make sex uncomfortable or painful. It is said also, to improve our mood and well-being, reduce stress or improve how our brain can deal with it and it feels good. It may also reduce the onset of other chronic conditions.

(BTW, ladies, that friend suffered with epilepsy. She used to 'drop' every couple of days. She did eventually begin to masturbate though, for a while, she needed help to get her orgasm. After a short number of days she said she hadn't 'dropped' since that first orgasm. After 6 weeks, she still hadn't had one. Then one day she didn't masturbate and mid afternoon, she dropped. If she always came at least once a day, she could go for over 3 months without a seizure. I think that means regular and frequent orgasms are a good thing).

6. Her advice for men was also needed but (unlike with women), it applied at all ages.
We should still be wanking no matter how much sexual activity we have, no matter what age we are.
She said it would help keep our prostate fresh, instead of relying on the body's natural abilities.
She said that the old adage "If you don't use it, you'll lose it" was very true and that frequent and regular wanks was shown to reduce or delay ED.
She also advised me to reduce my stresses because that can cause temporary ED which if not managed may become permanent.

When she did my prostate exam it seemed a little enlarged which is normal at my age.
However, she massaged it and, after a few seconds, I was beginning to ooze and was very hard, harder than when I play solo and, also, I needed to cum.
A few minutes later and it was all over.
I felt amazingly good. I also felt excited and awkward in equal measure because I had cum in front of my doctor.

Anyway, for the benefit of those guys who, like me, had only a solo sex life for a long time; you may feel like he's not hard any more, without help (cialis/sildenafil etc).
Not necessarily so. I was noticing a drop off (literally lol) in hardness though it still was useable for penetration or wanking.
She explained that if I were aroused with a partner, it should all come back to normal.
I thought she was trying to reduce any anxiety I may have had on the matter but, when I did subsequently meet someone, I was indeed anxious in case it wouldn't work well enough.
I don't know if my friend picked up on that anxiety but when she heard it was years since I had had sex, she spent time playing with me and he responded to the occasion and all was successful.

So, my message to guys is, if you think he's not working so well after a long period of sexual inactivity (with another person) try not to worry.
When you become aroused properly by another human he will respond and stand up Maybe gradually on the first occasion but subsequent times, he should respond better.
Don't overlook the fact that when your sex-life ended, it probably took you time to adjust to just wanking yourself.
Starting up a sex-life again; the issue is similar - though in reverse - because you've then got potential anxiety ( over whether all will work properly), which is an erection suppressant.

hth - even though I went slightly off on a tangent.

 

My husband is an extremely sexually energetic person- he normally have sex twice a day (avg) and masturbate several times a day. Each time i need to spend at least 15 minutes on oral sex. Male masturbator is a damn effective toy when he want oral, out of town, or too sore to have more sex. And he also use male masturbator, I remember his favorite is to buy some stroker or cock training toys from Lovebirdvibe.

 

I started doing it quite early.

 

Masturbation is good for the prostate which provides 80% of the ejaculatory fluid. So like the old saying, use it or lose it. Prolonged masturbation, edging, is something I have done for years and now retired, can do easily 2 to three hours a day.

 

Wife loves getting the huge loads that i build up from edging in her pussy, squirt after squirt after squirt, sometimes up to ten times. I like to let it rip on her tits and chestfor my enjoyment, but she gets her way most of the time.

 

I have been doing without sex for many years, decades in fact. I've had wank and cock sucking buddies though very rarely, but at least I have increased my masturbating to every day mostly twice a day and with edging, an art I'm still perfecting, I have huge amounts of pre come.
Indeed stimulus to help start me off and in my state of perpetual sexlessness there's nothing horny happening here, so I watch some light masturbation porn but chatting to people here really helps my self esteem and helps me get my cock working nicely

 

we are in the same boat so hit me up if you fancy a chat

 

Like others have mentioned, I have been in a sexless marriage for 5+ years. I had never heard of edging, but discovered it almost by accident. In the past, when I masturbated, the goal was to get to the prize as soon as possible. Then during my travels and alone in my hotel room, I would grab some lube, lay on the bed, and fire up my laptop, sometimes look at porn, but mainly reading stories on Literotica. I would find myself getting close, but would slow down and think “what’s my hurry? I have all night” So that introduced me to edging. I wish I had discovered it sooner. There are times if I am in a hurry, I will go straight for the prize. But when I have alone time, especially if the wife is out of town, I will edge for a good hour at least. Thank goodness for a lube recommendation from someone on this site. Doesn’t take much, stays slick, no funky odor. But eventually all good things must come to an end, and with my painfully hard cock and aching balls, I let go. And after all of the buildup, it is quite an orgasm.
I wish me or my wife would leave town more often.

 

Set her up with a weekly massage or manicure and plan that to be your me time. "Honey, maybe you should volunteer a few times a week....I'll drive you over...."

 

Would love to have my wife edge me. Better yet if we had an edging marathon and see who could hold out the longest.

 

It doesn't get that extreme for me. Usually if I edge too close to sleep, I'll just be edging while I'm asleep. I'll faintly remember doing it the next morning and be really sleepy that day.

I almost never remember my dreams.

 

Ever have a wet dream from it?