Do you stop masturbating as soon as you think you're going to blow? Or, do you see how close you can get without having cum spurting out? I edge a lot & try to get to where I can feel my cum starting up through my cock. Often, I feel like the cum gets almost to the tip, but doesn't quite make it out. Sometimes, I can even get just a drop of cum to ooze out without having a full orgasm. I love that because I don't lose the desire to eat it & after a few seconds can continue wanking until I almost blow again. I tend to keep this up for hours when I'm alone & really horny. How about you?
On a scale of 1 to 10, let's call orgasm/ejaculation a 10: past point of no return and will enter refractory period after. I am generally very happy to keep myself at a 9 for a LONG time. So I am feeling really really good but at least 5 healthy strokes from cumming. But yeah there are times as the session goes on or a hot porn scene surges me toward 10 and I have to stop and hold a kegel grip. If successful I can feel my prostate trying to contract. Feels so good and the temptation to let it happen is strong. But the wait is worth it. At this point a little semen gets discharged and works it way up the tip and yep I taste of too, still horny. My idea of edging is to hover at 9 rather than surging toward 10 and backing off over and over. That would be torturous after a while.
Edging is the best. Getting it right to a 9.....over and over....to the point where another stroke would put me over the top....and holding off...sometimes finishing .. sometimes not and picking it up later... It's very captivating.
I get close to the point my cock is pulsating and jumpy. Sometimes I bring myself closer than my plan and I ejaculate a bit. That can also happen a few times in a row, one time I gave myself four ejaculations before I finished. That doesn’t happen often and I find it harder to reach my final when I do that. In the past I find it much easier to have more work ass given from a talented woman
Practice, practice, practice. Take your time and learn where you need to stop, work your way up to it, a little farther at a time. It takes control and discipline to stop and start again, but there's far more pleasure than just a one and done orgasm. It also helps you learn to last longer during sex.
I love edging if I have enough time. Finding that exact point to stop is the key. That exact point varies though and many times results in my having a ruined orgasm.
I can keep a 9 going a long time on the 1 to 10 scale. I have actually gone to the point where I was burning with extreme sexual ecstasy but the cum had -just- not started shooting out but I could feel it rushing up the penis (it is like a ring of fire sliding up from the balls over the shaft and then "tightening" behind the head), I then let go and some cum (actually more pre-cum - colourless) would come out. I can then take a short break (5 minutes or less) and start rubbing again and resume the excruciating pleasure almost exactly where it left off. But it kind of "ramps up" if I'm not careful, e. g. do the above three or four times and it is as if the penis get more charged and more charged each time until I can barely touch it and it explodes with orgasm and I shoot my complete load of semen. What I've also done a few times is to completely ignore it for at least twenty minutes, during which the erection would semi-dissipate, then I can resume rubbing and usually have an unbearably pleasurable orgasm in moments, with a penis not completely erect yet.
I like to edge to the point that I’m so close it’s a tug-of-war of if I should stop and ‘save it’ or go to the finish. After and edge or two it feels so good to finally cum!
The most satisfying thing is to get to the limit and stop but still make some cum come out. I can shoot precum like a fountain before the real cumshot.
If I do it just right, I can get right to the point of orgasm but I'll stop and push hard like I'm trying to pee, making thick cum start flowing out...but with no orgasm. After waiting a few seconds I'll start stroking again until I get to that point and do it a second time. I'll do it 2 or 3 times before I finally cum, although by that point it's just a dribble. It feels SOOOO good doing this, it's almost like having multiple orgasms, making my toes curl every time.
Love edging right up to the point of no return.....and letting it come down, while the wife uses her magic wand to cum 4 or 5 times.
Who can remember, as a kid, throwing your baseball onto the roof so that it will roll back and you can catch it? The harder you throw it, the stronger the flight off the roof when it rolls off — that is until you throw it just a little too hard, and it rolls over the ridge and back dow the other side. We males are each one of a kind in our responses to stroking, and in how advancing age affects our response. For me, reaching a 9 entails the risk of throwing the ball just a little too hard. For me, that can mean a spoiled climax — that is a bit of a dull tingle and a dribble, and then frustration because I have to wait the refractory period before I can try again. And as a man in his late 60s, that can mean waiting till tomorrow. If I’m lucky, it can mean still being able to have a real climax and squirt, but have to work hard to get it (I.e., furious unrelenting stroking). So my routine is to remain around a 6 with occasional excursions to a 7 or 7.5 for 30 minutes or more. After that I stroke gently (often stroking only my scrotum) in a way that I gradually, over perhaps 10 minutes, ascend the slope up to the peak and joyously ride the thrilling roll down the other side of the roof. The result is spending as much as a minute or two journeying through 8, 9, and 9.5, before reaching a very long lasting orgasm — as long as 15-20 seconds — and one with toe-curling, crying-out intensity. Whether this works this well for other guys depends upon their individual constitutions.
I’ve been edging off and on since Monday. I’m going to try and get a few hours in each day. Then Saturday I’ll let it fly. If I don’t cum sooner, cleaning out some of my deleted wank bank porn on another site. When I’ve edged and usually have pretty good control over if and when I cum. There has been a few times where I just said screw it and let myself cum. There has been other times when I get so close to the PNR that I’m like baseball baseball, trying to bring myself down from my pleasure high as soon as possible. I have on a few occasions have had dry orgasms
I usually bring myself to a 8-9. Always getting precum or some milky stuff each time. I'll go an hour at times, but by then I'm back to a 7-8 otherwise I'll loose control. Then I'll watch one porn video while only playing with my balls. The next one I go all out and wank through to a huge orgasm!! I've never experienced the luxury of sitting back and being edged by a woman. Another one for the sexual bucket list.
