I started edging about a year and 1/2 ago I guess, prostate massage is almost always involved. This is a potent combination and I usually do not allow climax for a few days. This has become an almost daily routine and i think is contributing to some recentt issue with ED. I did battle ED in my past, but had been doing well the last couple years. I read awhile ago that the endorphine release is addictive, anyone else in this boat? I need to slow this way down or quit.
For me, it's like this. I love to just jerk off. I'll do it during the day at work. Escape to the men's room stall and just rub one out. Then I discovered prostate massage and doing it in conjunction with wanking. You don't allow climax for days?!?!?! I don't think I understand that. I'll edge for 30 to 45 minutes because I do believe you can do damage by denying the urge for too long. And after I've had a REALLY good p-gasm, the next time I just do a run-of-the-mill wank it's less than impressive. I don't get very hard, I usually cum with a half hard penis. I limit myself to once a week on a p-gasm. And the endorphin rush is really off the charts.
I couldn't imagine holding a load in for that long. Sounds almost painful. When I want to bust a nut, I want to bust a nut -- not hold it in. Some of y'all have some strange proclivities. To each their own, I guess. How many threads can there be on "edging" alone, though?
I used to simply maturbate a well. I didn't plan this out- Holding off for days is something I just stumbled on over time I think, here are the issues that have led me to where I am at, that might answer some questions: 1. With past ED issues, my thinking was, not masturbating at all would help when I do have the opportunity for sex wth my wife, and it did to a degree- , but abstaining consistently is not for me so curbing climax is a good alternative. 2. At my age, energy comes at more of a premium and I was noticing a post climax fatigue/let down. I do not get this with edging. 3. Edging without orgasm does send me off with a little buzz or hop in my step each day. 4. Each successive day of edging produces a cumulative effect. by day 3 or so, everything is more acute, sense of feel, fantasies.... 5. Prostate edging can produce literally all of my semen if I choose, this must help with the "backing up" issue as I do not feel like I'm missing anything anymore by not climaxing as often.
edging is simply masturbating and getting to the "edge" of climax, then halting and repeating. Prostate massage can be done with a variety of objects. Combining the two is what I have arrived at. I did climax Sunday morning and felt sluggish all day.
