Edging and benefits

I have edged (edging-prolonged masturbation) for many many years and have enjoyed its benefits daily.
Edging can provide long term pleasure without ejaculating for an hour or more on a daily basis. Ejaculation feels good yet, it's a "falling off the cliff" situation as pleasure subsides rather quickly.
Some background: the moment of no turning back when masturbating results from the testicles retracting and in some cases retracting considerably just before ejaculation. That's why it can be difficult to gain control over that moment of no return.
The remedy that I found are cock and ball stretchers which can be found through a company called Oxballs. I favor the silicone ones which are not extreme. For example the most extreme I have is the "8 ball" product which is quite strong. These slings prevent the testicles to retract which helps in control, and prolonging pleasure. Ejaculation can occur, but they give a good measure of control during masturbation.
Having said all this I can enjoy the pleasure of masturbating through edging for an hour or two. Sometimes, several times a day. The semen buildup does occur due to prostate stimulation and which can be relieved in two or three days but the need to edge again occurs rather quickly, actually the same day orgasm occurred.
Masturbation to orgasm can occur in ten minutes or less with a recovery time depending on age progression. An older adult male might take 2-5 days. Myself, I can fully enjoy masturbation every day for long periods of time.

 

Edging is one of life's simple pleasures - and the equipment is built in.

 

True. But the cock/ball slings really help the testicles not to retract. They also define the balls very well.

 

Shit, mine practically pull up and disappear the minute any fun begins. Learning control of the PONR is half the craft, the rest is fine tuning.

 

I use Oxball Grip Padded Silicone cock ring black, 8 ball cock ring and ball stretcher Black, (that one works as long as my testicles are warm or after a hot shower so that it can slip on after stretching it is tough, but when on it is amazing.). And small silicone rings I got from them with orders. The 8 ball small ring slips over the testicles firmly, not going anywhere. Plus the balls are very defined and accessible. I have edged for years and could do it without the slings. But they give me that extra mile. Today I edged for two hours.

 

Some years later I was away on a business trip. I stopped in adult bookstore maybe for the first time ever as I was curious. When I was in there I ended up buying a small vibrator about the size of a large cigar. I went out and got a couple AA batteries and headed back to the hotel room. There I was completely uninterrupted and started to experiment with my body and that vibrator. I started out with slowly sticking it up my ass and having it vibrate as I was stroking my penis. I quickly became very aroused and horny. Eventually the vibrator wasn’t as pleasurable as I expected in my ass and I had to pull it out. I began stroking the vibrator on my balls I remember that was feeling pretty good. Eventually I had the vibrator sitting on my balls and I would do a two hand upstroke on my erection. I would use both hands followed by one another and only do up strokes. It felt so good. I remember feeling close to cuming and stopping. I would let my erection relax and start that all over again. This went on for a couple hours to the point that I almost didn’t stop in time a couple times and small drips of fluid started to trickle out of the hole and end my cock. But again I would just let it relax and started again. It got to the point where I wondered what if I took this vibrator and rubbed it up and down my hard shift. So I did that and after a few minutes the feeling was just so incredible - I found my hips gyrating uncontrollably. I stopped once but then when I got erect, did it again. The feeling of that vibrator running up and down my stiff Boner ended up becoming so intense them more than my body could handle. My hips we’re gyrating and soon I could feel that buildup of fluid in my ball sack. My dick was feeling so wonderful. It began to tingle and and I could feel the fluid was working its way up my shaft. I was at the point of no return. There was no stopping. I was going to be coming whether I did or not. That vibrator moving up and down my dick caused me to thrust my hips in the air and huge amounts of cum began spewing out the end of my dick like I had never experienced before. It was an explosive cumshot. Sperm was everywhere, dripping down my dick and a huge puddle accumulated under me. Even afterwards as my penis was relaxing it was still dripping and I was breathing heavily.

That was first time edging. It was some experience and didn’t even know it was a thing.

 

Thank you for your story which I read every word. Edging stimulates the prostate which accounts for about 80% of the ejaculate. So edging does increase fluid production which I have found. Your experience is right on regarding the intense pleasure experienced over time during a session which can be quite overwhelming. Have you continued to explore that pathway after that experience? Long term edging requires the best lube and I use JO H2O lube which I have found to be the best. The pleasure is quite intense especially getting to that point which requires slowing down or stopping. I have experienced like you intense bodily responses like the hips moving quite an accurate description. My wife gets very turned on watching me go through those pleasure throes. Thank you again for sharing.

 

I didn’t know edging was a term for something that I had been doing for a while. I usually just went for the O. As with hipme did I travel a lot. Found myself in the Big Easy and found an adult store and looked around. Saw the latest edition of Penthouse Letter “Wife Sharing Edition”, which is my go to fantasy. Back in my room with the lube and the magazine and started reading and stroking. I read that mag and stroked for a couple hours. I’d get close and stop and start again, and again, and again. When I couldn’t take anymore I came…..HARD! So intense watching my cum shoot out and hitting my chin, chest and belly. It just kept coming.
Now I’ll do it almost every night in my hotel rooms. Sure a still pull off a quickie in the morning shower, but the edging is addictive.

 

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I also want to caution about cock/ball slings. Never wear them sleeping or for hours at a time; if one hour goes by take it off for ten minutes then resume. Study them and be careful putting them on. Never use any made with metal, wood, plastic; use silicone/stretchy material that can be cut in an emergency. Never make home made with cord/string/etc., those materials are dangerous. Find those which are comfortable and safe for you from a company that makes them. I mentioned the "8 ball" I have and I have to exercise caution and really stretch it out before applying. Study those which will be easy to use and comfortable for you. Oxballs is a company outlet which provides pictures so you get an idea how the product works. I just want everyone to be safe. Any history of hernia do not use.

 

"Addictive" is a good word, though I have practiced edging for so long that it is part of my routine, life style. I don't ejaculate when I edge; I will two or three days later but again it depends-I have ejaculated two days in a row because of what you refer to, intensity. Edging, like I mentioned, stimulates the prostate. The prostate produces 80% of the ejaculate fluid besides other glands. Thus after a few days I can feel slight pressure which tells me it's time. You are right regarding volume. I feel that edging has kept me healthy in that area like they say use it or lose it. I'm glad I have more time being retired so it's part of what I do daily. I just did an hour this morning probably do another hour later.

 

The purpose of my thread on edging is to share another level to masturbation which most of the time ends in 10-20 minutes with seconds of pleasure and a recovery time going forward. My experience over the years is immense pleasure for long periods of time which I limit now to not more than two hours in a row. In the past I have done way more. Now I break it up. My wife is extremely understanding and knows how edging works and gives intense pleasure. She enjoys watching me and really enjoys watching my intense pleasuring unfold. Masturbation does not have to be seconds of pleasure-it can extend into hours. Sex is extremely important for both of us. Edging is just a facet.

 

I think we all thought "oh, cool, I've discovered how to make it last long....I bet nobody else knows how......."

 

I'm sure many have discovered edging but many have struggled with it. Control is difficult to master. If in a very stimulating environment control is even harder. For example, there is such a thing called cuckolding where a husband enjoys watching his wife have sex with a male friend. In many instances some husbands want this badly, but when the situation arises, the husband does not last long as he watches and masturbates. Knowing how to edge in a situation like that would be very helpful. Now like you mention, sure, others know about edging. I'm \just sharing what I learned.

 

That's well said and I have to agree, I've practiced this for so many years but only recently developed the ability to hold myself right at the edge of the orgasm but not go over for hours on end. I take bathroom breaks and get a snack now and then. When I finally decide its time to end the torture I shoot ridiculous amounts of cum everywhere with great force. Its almost a hallucinogenic experience. Once per week or less seems best.

 

Like I stated, orgasm for me can be in two or three days, but again there could be times two days i a row. I can also skip a day depending on what is going on. But overall, I keep a certain consistency. I believe that having started in my mid twenties has enabled good prostate health and erectile function today. It is not for everybody. But for me with an above average sex drive it is something I'm glad I learned a long time ago.

 

I used to think that I the 5+ day abstaining really intensified the O when it finally came however, i am wondering if that is all in my head. I recently ended after only 48 hrs since my last release and I can quite hard. What was missing was the huge load. But, i think you can have an intense O in the absence of witholding for days. anyone feel differently.