Tried it once and didn’t really like it. Usually just cum on a tissue and throw away, or if I’m in the shower I just shoot my load anywhere.
My wife broke me of being Cum Shy, decades ago. For these other guys: It's not poison, won't turn a str8 guy gay and how could I ask her to swallow or let me cum all over her ? She used to like giving me a bj, letting me cum in her mouth(with very large ejaculation), then giving me hot tongue kiss and pushing my cum into my mouth for me to deal with . It was a Win/Win in my book. I got a great blowjob and made it fun for her too. Now, she just makes me cum on myself.
Damn, that's hot! Your wife sounds like she's either kinky, a little dominant or both. What else has she made you do?