:iagree: Makes my eyes well up [not crying] it's so painful. I've tried it many different ways too, lower down, higher up, different angles. Hurts like hell. No loss though it's not a favourite of my husbands. I don't get this thread but any excuse to talk about sex.
lol. I'm not boasting I was seeking advise. And if your dreads don't get messy then maybe you have quickies. I don't like those. I understand dreads.... and i understand it's a personal choice to let them congo or not. I just don't like it. Anymore questions?
Well I don't like quickies either and my dreads don't congo. Maybe it's not the sex thats causing them to congo? Have you had them long?
I hate being on top...very uncomfortable as well...not only is it uncomfortable but it makes the love makin' session end rather abrubtly....if you catch my drift. lol. Then Im just sittin there wanting more and my man goes to sleep. So....I only do it on very special occassions.... I vote we turn this thread into a sex discussion only lol
It sucks because my boyfriend loves it when I am on top... but I guess he'll just have to get over it. I like talking about sex. Personally I do like quickies... but for long sessions I still don't notice anything different about my dreads... I mean I sleep on them for hours at a time and that makes more of them join together.
I prefer quickies. Sometimes...longer sessions are nice. but Im more of a wham bam thank you m'aam kind of a lover. lol. I go into it with a purpose.
I was talking in retrospect, because this was last year I had them, and I had them for about 7 months at the time, which wasn't long but they were coming along really fast. I just started these a few days ago... So maybe it was something else. But I'm not ready to believe that fully because once we had sex for three hours. lol.
Id get bored after 3 hours. Sometimes sex really creeps me out...in a funny way though. All the grunting, moaning, funny sex faces, and bouncing up and down on top of each other action...and for what? A squirt in the pants? It's so much work.
I have to say that I'm pretty sure I could never keep doing it for 3 hours... my vagina would hurt so bad!
Sex isn't work, it's all about fun! I hate quickies unless I don't have time for a longer session, they usually leave me hungry for more. For me it's the longer, the better. Like many of you guys I'm not comfortable on top, but mostly because I'm chubby and I feel heavy like that, bouncing on top of my man lol plus he is way lighter than me so that's not comfortable for him either.
Maybe if you don't like cumming, you are either doing something wrong or you are one of those girls who don't get much pleasure from it... Either way, that must suck (no pun intended)
Thekarthika, perhaps pull a condom over your dreads. The lubricated rubber would stop friction between your dreadlocks, thus preventing congoing. Problem solved
I like the quickies too. I could never spend three hours having sex. I share mandy's view about it. I'm sure having kids in the house may play a part in this. And yes I do enjoy it, but it sure doesn't take hubs and I 20 minutes even. lol
Yes. I think having children is a huge part of it. My daughter has walked in on us having sex twice! The second time it happened we were so into it that we didnt even notice she was standing there for about a minute! Luckily it was dark so I dont think she saw us but I was yelling "Fuck Me". Oh Gawd. Now when we do it I have one eye on the door and that makes it hard to have long intimate love making sessions.
Either Fit A Simple Lock To the Door, Or Have A Wooden Wedge Handy That You Can Push Under The Bottom Of The Door.. That Way When "shortstuff" Is Trying To Interrupt, It Will Appear To Her That The Door Is Jammed, Rather That Locked. Just Another Helpful Household Tip From Glen.... Cheers Glen.