I have this fetish with getting my wife in bed with me and another guy. I would like to just say "hey wife I wonder how it would be to try double penatration on you?". And her say "I don't know let's just try it for fun, call someone up". You know, no strings attached just straight up fun. We've done pillow talk on the subject while having sex and it's a huge turn on but when I tell her I would like to try it she says that I wouldn't be able to do it and would get too jealous. Should I just keep it a fetish or try to push for some action? It wouldn't be hard to find a guy because my wife is a little hottie, but how does a person even go about?
Sit down and talk to her openly about it when you are not having sex and see where the conversation goes then. If you can not do that with each other then you should probably just leave it as fantasy.
I'm in the same vote, I want to have a MFM three some with my woman. I want to see her suck another guy off, I want to fuck her while that's happening, and vice versa, and of course the DP, ending it off with both of us blowing in her mouth and face. We have talked about it many times, and it gets me hard every time. She says she is down with everything just need to find the right person. My only concern is how will I feel after wards, I mean I would go into it saying this is just fun, no string attached, no emotions, but than you just never know when your in the heat of the moment. I've heard of other couples doing this but they have talked about it for at least a year or two before going through it and it seems to have worked.
Yeah I think I'm going to have to think about this long and hard until I'm ready and then sit her down and have a heart to heart about it and be serious with her. So if it ever happens I will post here and let you guys know how it goes. Thanks for the input.
Think about one thing. How are you going to respond to rubbing your genitals against another guys? Believe me, it has to happen if you're going to effectively have a DP.
Do you already have a guy in mind? If so I'd say start talking to her about him. If you don't have a particular guy in mind already start pointing out guys when your out or maybe sign up for adult friend finder and look at guys together. I say this because it sounds like she's on board with it but is concerned about you being jealous. Taking it a step further may get her to believe you're ready too.
I wouldn't be concerned with my balls or dick touching another guys, I don't get all weird if there is a naked guy in the room. Who knows maybe it would be a turn on. But we will see I'm still trying to find a way to seriously tell her this is what I would like to try.