Don't do it!! Do Not Do It!!!!!

you do now?

 

Maybe you can read before you post.. That might help avoiding a pointless discussion..

 

maybe you shouldnt relate situations to a tv show...
that might help to avoid a pointless discussion..

 

whats your problem with a dumb tv show? I don't see why giving an example is such a big deal.. i don't even like friends that much.. damn.. you really got some issues about friends..

 

i think you do actually...
i thought you liked it now you saying you dont..
sounds like you have the issues champ...

 

sigh, I skipped all the wordy lenthy posts and now I am lost. so here is a random image:

 

You can think that you want, you just came to the wrong conclusion.. I just used it as an example because it's a show a lot of people watch and therefor it could be usefull as an example.. If I use you as an example of someone that disagrees with me doesn't mean I like you, doesn't mean I don't like you either.. It's just an example.. you see what I mean??

 

Thanks, I was planning on thinking what I want...but thanks for that added permission...
And nope, dont really see your point here..

 

*sigh*

 

Getting a bit upset, aren't we? Let's remember who posted this thread. Were you expecting everybody to agree with you? That's too bad about your closed mind.

So the bottom line is...if you don't want kids, then don't have them. I don't know why you feel you have to justify yourself......

 

I cant concieve.....

 

you finally get my point.. thank you.. I don't feel I have to justify myself, I just don't want to be misunderstood..

 

we need to stop letting deformed and unhealthy babies live. all theyre doing is clouding the gene pool. Why do people not see this?

 

Thank god for this thread... if it wasnt for this thread i would have never known to not have babies if i didnt want to and such....*sign* now i can finally sleep...

 

Yep. And we've been informed by someone with higher education.

 

that education must really be paying off... i bet the people who write those pamphlets at the gyno went and studied the same courses...

 

I've never watched Friends, so I don't know the particular episode that you're speaking of.

I am a bit confused however on this whole selfish issue. Are you saying that this applies to couples who planned their pregnancies as well, that intentionally set out to conceive in the first place? Or is this about an unexpected pregnancy and making a decision as to what to do? I don't understand how it can be selfish to chose to have a child if you are doing it for what you personally feel are the right reasons. *scratches head*

My husband and I wanted children because both of us love children and wanted children of our own. Loving a child is selfish? I'm totally confused.

 

I think she just needs it to be a bad thing so she can justify not doing it..

 

I don't believe that study for a minute. How can one know if they are happier if they've never even HAD a child, therefore, have never experienced it to even know if having a child WOULD make them happier? That just doesn't make sense at all.

 

Go Daisymae! *claps*