I don't know about a fetish but as a bottom meeting a 'stated' Dom my desire is to give him pleasure in the use of my body. The way I see it the hornier and more hyped I can get my partner the better for me. I get pleasure from turning on my partner.......and receiving what he can give me...haha Simon
I get turned on being dominated by the way a man takes charge and is in control over the sexxxual situation that he cornered me into and gets his way using me as his pleasure slut slave.....
Growing up, I would encounter guys who'd try to get me to suck them off by being aggressive and like they had some kind of right to make me suck them. I'd resist their attempts to dominate/intimidate me because while I loved to suck dick, it's about doing it on my terms and not because of some macho bullshit some guys are into. I don't pretend to understand the dominant/submissive thing that's going on these days; I know that, back in the day, there were guys who felt that they had to prove how masculine they were by preying on "weaker" guys and having sex with them and they weren't my idea of the kind of guy to have sex with. Now, it's a thing and there's a glut of bottoms looking for dominant tops to take advantage of their submissiveness and... I don't get it because I'm not a dominant but I'm not a submissive - I'm pretty neutral in this regard. I understand a lot about male bisexuality but this is something that keeps escaping me.
I definitely want a more dominate type man. I don’t want someone controlling or outwardly bossy, at least not until he takes his cock out for me. I don’t want him to be in charge from start to finish when I’m giving him pleasure.
if I were able to be with another man, I would want him to be experienced, and somewhat dominant. Someone to show me the ropes. Not in a bossy, or domineering way, but someone to take the lead.
I really like a man to be dominant. I really get off being told what to do and to talk to me dirty. Say nasty things to me as he is using me. That really turns me on.
Is it a fetish to try and seduce a guy into sucking your dick? Nope and I'm not sure why anyone would think it would be; it implies that it's a fetish to seduce women into doing the same thing, doesn't it? And I'd question if a guy has to be "dominant" to seduce a guy into getting his dick sucked because I've had guys who I wouldn't say were anywhere near being dominant "seduce" me into giving them my dick to suck, not that I was going to put up a fuss about it. Having said that, I've had them "dominantly" suck my dick which is something I understand having seduced guys into letting me suck them off; I've had such guys grab my ass and "make" me fuck their mouth and even with the extra incentive of them putting a finger or two in my ass and encouraging me - seducing me - into giving up my cum.
After a man I had spoken with a few weeks earlier got together at his house, we talked a little beforehand. He told me that he becomes extremely turned on when can be the dominant partner and enjoys being the one in charge. While I have really enjoyed sucking, it was the first time I was specifically asked to be in a submissive roll. As we progressed I found it took me to such a higher level of pleasure. I can honestly say precum was literally dripping out of me as I did everything he wanted to his dick and everywhere else down there.
