doesn't love me back :(

ahh i already feel alot better. it's been... a week and a half since i posted this and i hardly think about dave anymore.. yeah, sometimes when i'm a lil drunk i call him, but he doesn't answer and i remind myself that it just isn't gonna happen. i also met this guy and i kinda have a crush on him.. that helps as well.
come what may.. that's kinda my motto these days.
thanks everyone for the wonderful advice.




and inbloom, you're toooooooo cute boy! you have no idea.

 

Do you still have any memories of him? its probably best to get rid of them.

 

yeah of course i have memories..
and i don't think it would be healthy to erase all memories of him!
i want to remember when it was good! i don't want to completely forget him!

 

I'm quite the oppisite, I'd like to forget about any bastard son of a bitch that ever broke my heart, the good and most of all the bad.

 

ahh see i like to take what was good and remember that... and forget the bad! then i have good memories and no bitterness.
just differences of opinion, that's all!

 

Yea, I feel the same way. Although it's kind of hard to forget the bad, I try to focus on the good memories. After all, if there wasn't anything good about that person, why was I with her in the 1st place? And vice-versa. That's the way I see it.

 

well put!

 

Yoouuu are too cute, girlie!

 

Well girl... I'm gonna sound like no one else on this thread, but... although I think it's good that you keep yourself busy and try and see other people and shit... if he said he still has feelings for you, then you have a chance. And if YOU did something wrong... then proving him, somehow, that you didn't mean it or will never do it again... and if you also give him the space he needs... he'll come back. Anyways if you guys are meant to be, you will be together, sooner or later. Just try and respect his space... I'm telling you, my ex-fiance asked me for space and I didn't give it to him and I made things WAY worse. Right now our relationship is slowly rebuilding but te key is to seem like... you don't need him, you don't want him... even acting cold and distant, or pissed even, will make him run back to you... if that's still what you want. I know it works... at least it works with Nick. When guys tell you they want space... be a bitch. They'll run back to you.

 

...and... NO it's not true when guys need space they don't want you. Sometimes, people need to find themselves. They need to think, to rest, take a break from... everything. And it's good. But it doesn't mean he just hate you and never wanna see your face again. Please don't believe that shit.