My wife will masturbate with a toy as part of foreplay, I want her to do it more, but she is a little inhibited. It turns me on, I get so hot.
That sexy little minx I married will do damn near anything I ask her to. Sexually, I mean. I'll also throw in that she was much more eager in the early years to try new stuff. I'm a total freak in the sac. She's used to my antics.
We both like to masturbate together once in a while and when we do she always starts with her fingers but most of the time she ends up with one of her toys. It’s a wonderful sight and I enjoy it very much
I love watching my wife masturbate. She doesn’t ever do it on her own so I have to ask her to (or put her hand on her pussy and make her do it). It is so hot.
My wife and I have regularly masturbated in front of each other since very early in our relationship, over 20 years. She initiated it and afterwards asked me to do it for her. It often leads to other things, tho we often do it to cumpletion.
My wife never did but we did both make videos of ourselves masturbating once and gave them to each other. That was hot!
When I watch my wife masturbating I love watching her face and her hand is moving like hummingbird wings. And if she just can't get a nut she says come up here and put your dick in my mouth and stroke it. That will probably do it. And I do and she does. And as she is cumming she says, fuck me now and make me cum from inside. So I do and she cums again and I make one hell of a mess in her.
All the time. If we’re laying around playing on ours phones. I’ll peak over and see her watching porn. Then she will start to touch herself. I watch her cum. Then I’ll do it. Sometimes we just watch porn on the tv and masturbate on the couch together. I’ll come home from work to find her rubbing herself and using the vibrator. I’ll jerk off 5-6 times a week. She will do it 8-10 and we still have sex 4-5 times a week of not more. We’re very active sexually. Sometimes she will start and then call me into the other room to help her with something. I usually end up with my face between her legs. She will randomly blow me while we’re out shopping or driving down the road.
it would be pointless. Her sex drive is zero for some reason. I wish. But anything related to sex is an instant awkward argument. So I stay clear,
I say this from experience. Sit down say, "for men, for me, sex is a major frequent event in life. For many men, lack of sex makes a relationship a deal breaker because men really do not want to go elsewhere for it when married. No sex is driving me crazy with thoughts of going elsewhere but I really do not want to. We have a major problem. What do you think we can do about it. It may be nothing to you but for me it is causing serious depression. I did not marry you so I could just think about sex. One of the reasons I married you is because I love sex with you. Why did you stop? Please help me come to a conclusion on this very important issue. Together we can fix the problem. If need be let's go to a marriage counslor because the way I see it this is not a functional marriage by any means.
I get the approach, but she’s one of those people out there where there’s no reasoning with her, she literally won’t care. There’s a part of her that’s dead and black. Just ignore, doesn’t care. I’d die of old age before that changes. on the flip side she’s okay with me being with other girls (or guys), although my preference would be to have a solid sexual relationship with my number one. And she knows this. It is what it is. I know it’s just a matter of time here. You can’t (nor should you want to) change someone and sadly that’s what would have to happen. it’s a shame because from my side I’m happy to talk about any subject any time of the day. If it’s important to my partner then it’s important to me. Never judgement or putting off being inconvenient or anything like that. I’ve even said she could wake me up in the middle of the night if that’s when she needed to talk to me about something, literally no boundaries from me. And sexually I’m into anything and everything, so from her side I’d be happy to listen and provide. And Is take pride in doing a good job and learning. just a mismatch. People at different places in their life. I’m 39. A new life may await.
Sounds like you are an understanding individual just waiting for the present to unfold into the inevitable. When my A-sexual wife and I split it wasn't long before she came begging back saying she was wrong and began fucking my brains out daily. But I refused to live together again because the headaches that disabled me during the sexless marriage stopped when she left. I treated her like a queen and after a few dates after out breakup she finally realized what she had lost. Not bragging just the facts the way I see them.
