Does wife’s diminished sex drive equal increased bisexual thoughts.

My wife’s sex drive isn’t what it used to be when we were younger. I don’t think I’m alone. I’m attracted to female body but have evolving bi thoughts. Subconsciously I’m wondering if bi thoughts have more to do with getting sexual gratification without involving another female. Silly I know but getting sensual with another female could turn into more. Does that make sense or am I just oversexed kinky male. Thoughts.

 

Your thoughts of bisexual activity are more common then you think. During my first marriage of 25 years I had the very same thoughts during times of less sex with my wife. I acted upon those thoughts (not proud of it) as I was in need of sexual attention. I was surprised to find out how many other married men where searching for the same thing. I had a lot of mutual suck buddies over the last ten years of that marriage. I've remarried and told my present wife of my past activities and today we have a m/f couple we share our bed with regularly. Life is great not having to hide my sexuality and being able to share it with my wife.

 

since my wifes inability to perform as she once did and her not showing any interest much anymore. II have
in my case turned to being more curious about same gender sex with a certain someone for my needs. Not just anybody though.

 

It's perfectly normal. My wife is super sporadic with when she wants sex. Sometimes once a week. Sometimes it will be 6 months or more. I Jack off every day and like some sort of sex twice a week or more.

I'll ask my wife for sex on my days off. If she says no, I go to my gay lovers house. Super simple. Wife says no most of the time. My gay lover wants it as much as I do.

 

I am the same way. I love sex more than my wife and guys add more to.my sex life.

 

Yes and no. My wife had a hysterectomy and our sex life stopped dead. While I had bisexual experiences bisexual sex wasn't what I was seeking. After fooling around awhile I meet I couple that I started playing with. Out night she mentioned she deeply wanted to watch he husband with another man so I volunteered. After that I decided to just go with it. It opened up my options and kept things interesting. So yes my want for sex increased but not bisexually by default