Does this mean she wants sex?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by twopointsfour, May 3, 2014.

  1. twopointsfour

    twopointsfour Member

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    My question, this below, does it mean she wanted to have intercourse?

    She and I have had a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship (but are not definitively yet) for months and have gone as far as my touching her chest freely under her shirt. This time, we go further. I am slightly advancing exploring how each of us feels about having sex with each other by touching her more.

    She and I are kissing quite passionately, she and I take her shirt off, and I have unstrapped her bra. Kissing her breasts and nipples as much as one can and I have worked my hand down her pants and slowly into her panties. She responded by moving her hips and legs to accommodate my hand to more easily access her crotch. She is grinding me quite strongly.

    I give plenty of time for her to limit me, tell me not to go more or to stop. But since I feel she is only encouraging me, I rub her vagina slowly with one and then two fingers, then slowly more aggressively. She responds by further opening her legs.

    Further passionate kissing her chest and sucking her nipples, and after a couple minutes of rubbing only the opening to her vagina, she says, "I'm wearing a tampon."

    Can this or does this mean she is saying we can have intercourse but we/she has to take her tampon out first? Could it mean that she is saying she would like to have intercourse but because it is her period we cant?
     
  2. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

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    Why not just ask her that?
     
  3. Annwyn'Bri

    Annwyn'Bri Member

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    Okay, that would be enough to make me want to have sex. Just reading this has.

    But I agree with Samantha... ask her! Communication is key.
     
  4. RandomVegan

    RandomVegan Member

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    asking her is the best thing

    the way I judge situations, if anyone can't talk to me about sex, they are not mature enough to have sex with me
     
  5. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    Yes, she wants to have sex. Tell her you'll give her a minute to take her tampon out. What's wrong with you? You probably gave the chick pink balls.
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    it means she wanted sex. you're securely in the friend zone after shooting her down like that though.
     
  7. se7en_sins

    se7en_sins Member

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    Wow. The answer to this one is simple. Just ask her. If she is uncomfortable with having Sex because it's that time of the month then she will tell you.
     
  8. naturegirl1

    naturegirl1 Member

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    Like most of the previous answers have said....ask her! Something like"what's happening here? are we going to make love? Because I don't want to misunderstand your body language!" She will tell you....trust me!
     

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