Does teh number of men a woman has slept with alter your opinion of her?

:H No as long as the woman keeps clean ??she is good :leaving: peace,

 

As others have indicated, it's not so much the number as it is the manner of how it was done.

And for me at least, I wouldn't respect a guy either if he was just using people like meat for weekly gratification; I mean, if it's one of those cases, gender's kinda beside the point, ya know?

 

'The Number' matters...which is why you're NOT supposed to ask! Of course it will affect your opinion of them, whether you admit it or not. The circumstances matter as well, but when you're hearing a number that can't just be explained away except for a pattern of bad judgement or behavioral issues, you have to consider the person 'suspect' as far as being long-term potential.


I had one girl to tell me her number, it was like 30+, she was in her late twenties...that same night I had a nightmare where all of these naked dudes (I couldn't see their faces) we're crowded in my bedroom, asking 'Where's ******?' If you can't fit the number of people she's been with comfortably in a bedroom at the same time, something's wrong!

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The womans # will effect my rating of her. I wouldn't judge her, slut-wise. But it might make a chick that I consider a 10 to be a 9. Or a 9 to an 8.

 

For every poor bastard she has sodomized, another miunute of silent meditation must I have her undergo while I'm having tuna salad!
I have extra-salvant glands and brush heavily!

 

no it doesnt but im not a fan of random sex, & well after my last girlfreind if shes got that "it was just sex" attitude id be hesitent at least
i mean if shed had 50 or 200 failed relationships it doesnt matter.. if shes had random sex now & then to get by thats fine too, but if theres that attitude like oh i was bored so we had sex kinda thing i doubt id be interested in a relationship.. ofcourse if i was only inteested in her for random sex myself then what would it matter? but thats not generaly my style

 

I like to look at the age/number ratio. If she's been with 30 guys and shes 18...she's a fucking slut. If shes been with 30 guys and she is 30, that is alrite i guess.

 

Not really if it was safe sex.......why would i care what she did before ?

 

Yes.

 

NO, I actually like and respect women that consider themselves to be sexual creatures, just like men. I have a feminist perspective on this issue. I believe that women should not be looked down upon for having strong or frequent sexual desire, but should be viewed just as a male, and her sexual conquest should be looked upon positively.

 

i like your attitude here...and your sig quote.

 

Why does sleeping with 30 guys at 18 make someone out to be a slut?? Just cause she has more experience than you doesnt make her any less of a person. Maybe she's just better in bed than you!! and if you'd fucked 30 women at 18, you'd be shouting about it thinking your some kind of stud instead of the stupid little dickhead that you are!!!

 

ok i haD TO PUT MY PIPE DOWN ON THIS ON are we what 13 if it matter that much and you are so insucure about how you will stack up go home zip up your little pecker and go home and jack who gives a shit who she was or how many she s fuckingh you now be happy shut the fuck up and get busy on that pussy make it happy and dont ask stupid ????? or you will be the next number on that list i somebody like me will be knocking the bottomem out and not asking dump questions have a nice day good luck

 

Not at all. If she's been safe enough that shows she respects herself then I don't care at all.

If I'm really into her, nobody can lover her like I do. Nothing else matters.

Midland Texas? 915 represent.

 

theres nothign wrong with being a virgin, but neither is there anything wrong with being a sexual person or being willing to admit that you have asexual side, even if the person is female. and saying theyre precious kinda makes it sounds like you collect them and lock them in your dungeon to remain pure and chaste and untuoched (i knwo that isnt what you meant, but its where my brain went)

 

Woodcat said an interresting oxymoron. Now men who have had 30 females before reaching 18 are dickheads and women, who have done the same amount of men, are just expressing their sexuality. Feminism is an interresting thing as it is just an angle, but not the whole truth.

 

I dated a girl who I later found out (3 yr relationship) had worked as a prostitute in Houston. You know, 18, black pimp who beat her ass, the whole thing. I had some problem with it at first, but hell, you can't wear the thing out. She was by far the most responsive, orgasmic, and satisfying lover i ever had. The girl just flat loved sex. Masturbated more than I do, which is pretty regular! Ants in her pants, fire down below, and the finest snapping pussy I've ever had. You get over it...she would do anything, and I mean anything, except anal. Worked for me!

 

My GF has slept with more guys then I have women that doesn't phase me at all. What look at are the people goin off of what she says and the choices she made, the amount has nothing to do with a female to me. It just lets me know what she wants and when we 1st got together that was what she wanted then it turn into what it is now a very long term relationship.

 

It depends on what my intentions regarding her before knowing. If I was serious about her, yes. I was just interested in fucking her, and I knew she was disease free, no.