Does Sexy = Physically Attractive?

Oh I completely agree and do not find you to be a downer. You are being honest. Nothing wrong with that. :cheers2:

when I said drunk, I didn't really mean drunk as a skunk....I really was rushing and let words come out that were exaggerated. just a couple glasses of wine really.

Then there are the other times in social situations.....but that is always different. Then again, being a mama and responsible....its not the norm.

 

Yeah, I also have to relax on the subject. Any conversation involving alcohol is always taken to the extreme with me. I was scarred growing up. I'd almost say that there is a fear there. I just saw too many horrible things come out of using that is makes me repulsed by it. But while I don't drink much myself, I can be around it as long as it is responsible, and people are getting stupid drunk.

Now to re-evaluate your original intention...

Yes, a little wine can certainly set the mood.

 

no, no it doesn't sound like a reason to get married at all.

 

I can understand that.

We all have certain subjects that hit our tender spots. Mine is brain damaged situations and special needs children.

Well its hard to respond appropriately to someone who isn't representing what they are saying very well.

 

That would have been similar to me marrying mt exgirlfriend Avery. That would have lasted all of two years. uugh

 

yeah man, there was this guy i used to work with, he wasn't the best looking guy... but he was so cocky, and full of himself, full of confidence... it made him pretty hot.

cause yeah.. confidence is hot.. lol.

so i know what you mean.

 

i think everything, even alcohol, has it's place. i'm a stress beast nervous wreck most of the time. i live in fear. i can't unclench and slow my head down enough to think about sex without at least a beer in me. the best part is, it's not a prescription.

 

Divorce IS too easy but so is marriage.

 

Man with hand in pocket all day, is feeling cocky.

 

Exercise.
Hot tub and a massage.

 

Marriage has always been easy, but over the years divorce has not only become accepted, it has become expected.

 

exercise makes me want to hit people. dave can tell you, when i'd get back from the gym, i'd be ready to scream my head off and punch someone in the mouth. hot tub, heaven. but too hot to have sex. massage, i'm ticklish and have a hard time being touched BEFORE i'm relaxed. i like my beer. it's my favorite.

 

haha, funny, i want to hit people too after a hard workout

 

Exercise away from people. Take a walk at a park, on a trail, get a treadmill or exercise bike you can use at home.

No, I am not trying to be pushy, I am just stating what works for us.

Dave, hug her man, just hug it out bitches!

 

I get like that DURING the workout (if it involves lifting), but walking or jogging, while talking with someone just gets it over with and when I am done I go home get cleaned up and then I am riding that "runners high". I get so relaxed...

 

:cheers2:

i got kicked out of the class my friend was teaching in aerobics because i turn into a seething pot of rage and testosterone. some bitch kept banging into me, so i pushed her. i'm not typically a physically aggressive person.

 

hahahaha!!!

OMG.

I am so glad your arms aren't long enough to smack me from there.

 

I only get agressive while doing hamstrings. Nothing pisses me off more than training hammies.

 

i've decided that runner's high is a myth. i'm such a mindless, angry lump when i finish working out that i hate life.

 

right on!

I don't live in fear so much but there is just so much shit going on all the time that it is both hard to think about sex and its difficult to feel great about the body when you are busy taking care of everyone else and don't get that time for yourself.