Hi, I'm Trung, when I was in high school I knew Im gay, but its never easy being ASIAN- GAY, its the worst combination ever. Tried to have "gf" few times but it never worked, just broke up with my "gf" last month and now i'm getting tired. I want to have BF! Still I dont know how and where to start. I've been thinking about online dating app and I'm looking for serious relationship not just fake people looking to hookup, but not sure which one is good. I was introduced a few apps like MeetMarket, OKCupid, Grindr. I think those apps are ok, esp MeetMarket for its videos. How about you, which app hv you been using? Does it work?
I'll save you 10 years of hardship: 1. Stay away from any app, anything internet related, 90% of them on there are bi and or married. You cant come over my place, Im renovating really means my wife and the three kids are home or I live with my mum 2. Hit the gym, dress as the stereotype, let EVERYONE know you are a homo. You are far more likely to have many more guys come up and whisper in you ear: hey, you want to come back to my place for sucky sucky 3. You said you've had a few girlfriends
The apps are here to stay. To quite some extent, they are all pretty much the same, because only a finite number of guys in your area use them. If they show on one of the apps, the chances are that they will show on a few others, too. So, it is really all about the people and very little about the name or the features of any specific app. Be prepared that the guys using the apps, and/or meeting guys in real life, too, WILL lie that they are single, looking for a LTR, eternal love, and a few other desirable things in life to get laid and move on. Neither the apps nor real life can stop the folks from either cheating and lying all the way to orgasm. Eventually, it is always you and your gut feeling, common sense, etc., that get to call the shots... The good news here is that everyone out there, yourself included, faces the same odds. So, live your life well. Get going. Meet dudes out there, and take your time before you do anything that you may live to regret. Err on the side of safety. Learn to follow your own path, and project your personality as truthfully as you can. Other guys have succeeded in finding boyfriends and enjoying their lives. Why should you be an exception? KD
I don't know about everywhere but the dating app that is most pushed on tv is Match... I for sure don't know about any dating apps in r/l BUT I do know that you are very likely to hook up with exactly what VG said or you may find a psycho nut case and nobody ever hear from you again! Stay away from those apps! I also agree with ONLY do the real life hooking up.
