Does kissing make gay sex more erotic

Kissing makes any sex more erotic

 

I enjoy kissing very much so. It enhances the experience

 

As for myself, I feel that this is not the same or a normal road that I once used. Life and friendship has changed since it is a new world to navigate in. Intimacy matters so kissing makes since to me. Sex more intimate and often erotic, no matter the gender, that you are currently involved with. I accepted the fact that most folks are humans and although most of my life I really had no interest in kissing a male. Then after one man introduced me to being his anal bottom, he fucked me face to face, between my legs, and he kissed me hard when he was cumming in me. Soon I blew my warm load with him and have not looked back since. If a kiss will put you over the edge, then do it. With most guys I just want to suck them off and be done. For the rare guy that knows how to get between my legs I will willingly open my mouth for his kiss just makes so much more since. It's never been something very high on my priority list but several times while riding his cock, now I often find myself, kissing him during the heat of passion. I usually do so right before, when he says he is about to cum in my ass. If you have someone of the same sex and they are a bit afraid of kissing you, do whatever you can to get them to they will feel better, than they ever have. I knew he wanted me to perform orally, and I did. It has progressed to more, still maybe only physical for him, but I now get embrace, hugs, and best of all. kisses. passionate kisses. It took him a bit to do that, stingy at first with his kisses but now, pretty damn hot. Yes, kissing does make any kind of sex, a bit more erotic. Often it makes it Gayer I feel, it brings the sexual experience full circle, kissing another man. A deep tongue kiss does adds the sensual part. Just sucking his cock or letting him fuck you is servicing his needs, and your needs. Now Intimacy does matter, kissing brings love along with beautiful feelings.

 

he has to be a kisser for me to pursue

 

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I really enjoy kissing another guy it does make it more erotic and I love it

 

Absolutely! By definition, two guys having sex is GAY sex, be it oral and/or anal sex.
I have never understood how any guy could suck another guy's cock (maybe get his cock sucked too), be into rimming (giving/receiving) get fucked/fuck another guy's ass... Yet be grossed out by the idea of kissing/making out with another guy.
I'd be interested in hearing other's reasoning for feeling that way. Also, do guys who have no interest in kissing other men, but will have gay sex with another guy, think guys that are interested in kissing/making out (or other forms of intimacy) lean more towards the gay side of the spectrum?

 

I was thinking the same thing. If a guy is gonna have every other form of gay sex with another man, then why not just include kissing too?

 

The way I understand it, sure, it's all gay. But kissing adds emotional involvement to the experience and takes it to another level. In a way it makes it even gayer. That's what I get out of it.

 

I've kissed guys but never really gave any thought about it making the sex more erotic. I'm really not a fan of kissing guys, not because it's "too gay" but because some guys are just lousy-assed kissers and, besides, some guys are very weird about kissing to begin with.

 

Kissing a guy isn't always about the romantic aspect of things since kissing is generally accepted as being a part of sexual foreplay... and while we can deem it to be mandatory, it's unofficially optional and depending on (1) how you feel about it and (2) how someone else might feel about it. Shit, I've kissed guys as a part of foreplay, and I cannot honestly say that it made the sex more erotic - but when I had a gay boyfriend - and, yes, I use the term because I don't buy into any of these alternative descriptions to describe what is now a very ancient set of human behaviors that have been well documented - I would kiss him because I loved him and wanted to show affection toward him - but as a matter of course, we didn't "always" kiss and I never questioned it because, hell, my wife and I didn't always kiss. You either want to or feel like it or... you don't. Not kissing isn't a wrong or bad thing (and like some guys make it out to be) and if you are of a mind that kissing makes gay sex more erotic for you, then it does but we should be mindful that just because we like something doesn't mean others are going to like it or that they're gonna want to do it.

When it comes to having sex, it's always about whatever's going to float your boat and your partner's boat and kissing can be a part of things... or not. This is probably one of those topics where a lot of guys might want to consider agreeing to disagree...

 

Kissing makes any encounter more passionate, with a man or a woman. I remember seeing a guy once with the intention of only sucking him off. I went to his flat and discovered his cock was absolutely huge, the biggest I have ever seen. I could barely get my hands round it, let alone deepthroat it. But he asked if he could kiss me, which I said ok to. We ended up having the most passionate sex ever. I was only there to blow and go, but I just really got into it. I straddled on top of him and rode his cock while we snogged. It was the best experience I have ever had with a man.

 

If it works, it works.

 

Even though I am straight my answer is a one size fits all.
Depends on your level of comfort and attraction to your playmate.
I had sex with some women I didn’t kiss, and some I didn’t hesitate to kiss plenty.
Looking back, I prefer the ones I wanted to kiss because the attraction was stronger and the fun with them was better although I have two exceptions where the fun and satisfaction was sky high but we didn’t kiss much

 

I've always felt that romance is distinct from love. Romance has roots in courtship, chivalry, and monogamy, whereas love is much broader and applies to anyone you connect with on a very deep level.

I've passionately kissed numerous people of all gender orientations out of a combination of love and eroticism. I have not kissed out of "romanticism" since I was in high school.

 

My best friend and I have sometimes kissed on the lips and it did feel great. I think it heightened what was going on at the time and we both agreed after that it made the night special. It is not a regular thing with us however.
Kissing, licking and sucking each others bodies from head to toes is however a regular thing for us!

 

Yes very much so!

 

I have to admit, I had sex with another woman last month and really liked kissing her.

 

I'd love to know more about this. I get turned on watching two or more girls kiss. Not sure why. Maybe it's the erotic part of it all. I've never liked watching two men kiss. Except one time I was walking into an adult book store and headed to the booths. I was walking down the dark hall and there was a door open. Inside the booth was a guy dressed in womens lingerie kissing another man who had wandered in, much like me. The man in lingerie had his cock out and it was being stroked by the guy kissing him and for the first time, I found that to be a turn on. I watched them for a while. I might have had mine out too but that's a private story!