Does kissing make gay sex more erotic

When I first started messing with guys on my own (late 40s), I was like the married guy who tells himself he's just in it cos gay guys know how to give a good BJ. Kissing was out bc I just wasn't turned on at all by the idea of kissing a guy. I was just closing my eyes and letting them do their work, which I appreciated.

But slowly, I became more interested in what they might have to offer. I started reciprocating with the oral, and swallowing too. And that kinda broke the log jam WRT kissing.

But still to this day, I have an idea of "guys I would let blow me" (a lower bar) and "guys I find hot, whom I would like to blow and kiss and maybe fuck". Yes, it's gayer, and I'm gayer now tho I still don't feel gay per se as my label. It's been a journey.

 

It's never been something high on my priority list but several times while riding his cock I find myself kissing him during the heat of passion. I usually do so right when he says he's about to cum in my ass.

 

Kissing is beautiful....... If you have someone of the same sex and they are a bit afraid of kissing you,do whatever you can to get them to.. They will feel better than they ever have

 

Im glad you have some fun buddy

 

Definitely a turn on! Kissing is hot

 

It makes it more gay I feel, it brings the experience full circle, kissing another man. A deep tongue kiss adds the sensual part. Just sucking a dick or letting him fuck you is servicing his needs.

 

Drop by again. May be a three way will pop up!

 

This is true. If I could suck my own cock I would give myself at least three blowjobs a day.

 

the wonders of flexibility and youth.

 

I know what you mean about kissing men. When i first started having sexual contact with men, i used to just suck them off, and then let them fuck me and sometimes fuck them. However i wouldn't kiss them. It was like kissing them was somehow less involved than sucking their cock. It somehow was more gay than sucking their cock which is ludicrous but its how i felt. After a while though i was snogging them like a teenager quite happily. The only thing that would put me off kissing a man is if they smoked.

 

I think kissing means more than sucking though.... Kissing brings love and beautiful feelings

 

But then again it just might be the things you are not supposed to do rule that must be broken?

 

I would make an exception for weed lol.

 

Kissing a lover (when I have one) is just such an awesome thing, and him kissing me is even more awesome! I love it when my partner (when I have one) has my legs on his shoulders and he is thrusting into my butt and suddenly he will bend me until his lips reach mine and out lips lock and my head starts to swim! With a boyfriend (when I have one), Kissing anytime, anywhere is a way to tell him and anyone who can see us that he is mine. In bed, when he has climaxed inside me and we are cooling down, I still want to kiss his mouth and show him how much I want him. I love falling asleep with my man's (when I have one) arms around me, spooning me, feeling his appreciative kisses on my shoulders and neck... I love waking up that way too!

 

As you don't have a boyfriend and you are looking it sounds like you are available and very interested in meeting someone new.

Take not guys this guy is open to chat , he's laid out how he likes to get laid so if he's your type then get in touch because he seems pretty available right now. Who knows what it might lead too.

 

Thanks so much for that. I feel like I have a press agent again! LOL!

 

For me it makes the wholeact more erotic, sensual. Not just the act of sex.