IT HURT LIKE FIRE OF A DOZEN HELLS, BLOOD EVERYWHERE, MOTHER ON THE FLOOR CRYING, MY BOYFRIEND DICK TWIST AROUND LIKE A TWISTY THING, HYMEN flAP LOOSE LIKE A SEAGULL
i am a virgin. if thats what it is, wouldnt it have to be broke in order to have your period? and can you tell if it is or not?
I guess you could compare the hymen to a two-way valve (that is, until it's broken), menstrual blood can escape, tampons can go in. some women have pain, some don't; some bleed, some don't. lube, lube, lube, foreplay! he can wait a little while until you're ready. you'll know!
Actually I didn't find out till I read it online like last year. I've never fucked a virgin and they didn't tell us in any sex ed or health classes I've had. Luckily I had the innitiative to read up on shit myself. Oh yeah, p.s., I'm a dude and take it from me, foreplay is awesome.
It hurt for me the first couple of times.. no blood though...it still does hurt though from time to time.. but you cant really judge yourself on what other people say because everyone is different. You will just have to find out for yourself.