Interestingly enough, my boyfriend, who is uncircumcised, had a pretty painful & bloody experience. "I broke" he told me .. he had to get to the hospital himself, no car... the doctor was this kindly old german lady who told him Yes, this happens with uncircumcised boys, and to prevent this, you need to -masturbate more-
I bled the first two times, a LOT. I didn't think I would, since I'd also bled once from being fingered rather enthusiastically about a year before that.
Awwwh. You know, no matter how painful would your first time be, it'd still be worth it coz... well, sex is GRRRRRRRREAT. So don't worry about the pain too much, just enjoy.
Hymen: a thin membrane that surrounds the opening to a young woman's vagina. Hymens can come in different shapes. The most common hymen is shaped like a half moon. This shape allows menstrual blood to flow out of a girl's vagina.
if youre with someone loving who can be gentle, im sure you'll do just fine, if your with someone who's too excited, malicious, or who just wants some headboard rockin sex and dont care about your feelins, then yeah its prolly gonna hurt. also the less nervous you are,. . . uh . . the more . .um . . lubricated you'll be, which may help. unfortunately i dont have much experience with female virginity (blantant lie) or i could help you more i always did wonder whay a hymen looked like though, and how it tasted, and . . uh ok im about to get myself in trouble.
yeah same here. sometimes it takes a few times for it to actually break all the way. but honestly, it only hurts for a second. one tip: my boyfriend thought it would be best for me if i were on top, so i could make myself most comfortable, but looking back, i would rather not have been in control of such a thing. its like asking someone to hurt themselves, but at a nice easy pace. nope, better to get it over and done with in one fast plunge...but thats just my hypothezation, considering i took the route of impaling myself :H
some bleed and some dont, its not very much at all and its not a flowing blood like your period, more like the blood you'd see if you cut your finger. it stops and starts to heal. sweetie, its not as scary as you think. you'll be fine...no pain, no gain, right?
I bleed alot! ANd it was really painful. But yet I still enjoyed it. The second time I had sex was way the hell better then the first