Does he like me? We've been together for two years.

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Sparkle155, Dec 31, 2013.

  1. Sparkle155

    Sparkle155 Member

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    We've known each other for two years. He asked me to meet his mom and once he took me to meet his friends. He offered to take me camping but we haven't yet. He cuddles only for a minute or two after sex though, then leaves. I live far away from him and he drives up here but leaves after sex. I asked him if he would hold me more after sex but he held me for a minute or two and then drove me home. Does he love me?
     
  2. Sparkle155

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    We've been together for two years. Once he had me meet his friends and once his mom in those two years. But he leaves right after sex. I told him I wanted to be cuddled so he cuddled me for a minute or two then left the last time. Does he love me?
     
  3. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    Does he like you (thread title) or love you (post content)? Love? Probably not. Like? Maybe. He obviously likes the sex at the very least. What would happen if you drove there? Would he want to hang out and enjoy time together or would he want to have sex and then have you leave?
     
  4. happilyinlove

    happilyinlove with myself :p

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    Question:

    Answer: No.
     
  5. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Anyone who employs "Wham, Bam, Thank you Ma'am" actions - and thinks of a cuddle as a chore and nothing more, is there for the Lust - not the Love!
    The question I feel is, are you content with the Physical pleasure, if so then carry on, if not, there is definitely an issue of concern
     
  6. sunshine186

    sunshine186 midnight toker

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    wait it's been two years of fucking and he hasn't said it yet?
    is there anything more to the relationship?

    is he fucking other people? if so, the answer is nooooooo
     
  7. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    As previously said ("happilyinlove"):-
    It seems Like = YES (Heck of a way - for a really good lay)
    However Love = NO (Caresses and touch - are never too much)
    Content with the Physical pleasure?
    YES?= Carry on!
    NO? = Be aware, there is definitely an issue of concern
     
  8. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    he likes parts of you.....
     
  9. Sparkle155

    Sparkle155 Member

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    If I drive there he cuddles for a minute or two then says after he cums he's pretty much done and cuddles for just a bit after sex then leaves.
     
  10. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    Nah, I don't think he loves you. He probably likes you. Sounds like if you're not in it just for the sex like he is then you're wasting your time with him.
     
  11. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    He wants a friends with benefits no strings attached situation.

    If I were you I'd put a stop to it.
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    fuck if i know. it doesn't sound like it.
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    sure, what's not to like about easy sex?
     
  14. iriegnome

    iriegnome Member

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    I would have to say no. Actually I would doubt he even has feelings for you. However, the only way to actully know is to talk to him and ask him directly. Then you will know for sure
     
  15. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    That might not work because he can just lie to her face so he can keep getting sex from her.
     
  16. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    My guess is that he loves your sex. I hope I am wrong and he loves more deeply!
     
  17. Sparkle155

    Sparkle155 Member

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    He says he is not fucking other people.
     
  18. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Nah.....he doesn't like to snuggle. Hard to say if he does love you. It could be shown in other ways.
     
  19. Sparkle155

    Sparkle155 Member

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    No, he's not fucking other people.
     
  20. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    Well, is he fucking other people?
     

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