Thanks when I'm giving head I'm totally focused on what he wants, it's not about me at all. So I take my cue from my partner and do what he likes, whether thats swallow, let him cum on my face, or just carry on while he enjoys fully.
It depends, does it turn him on. Then yes....But usually right after he's really not interested anymore......Which is a turn off.
Jeanette, a common complaint about some guys (usually younger). It's a strong chemical thing in our brains that happens. Usually it's sleep, or hunger for food, or other ways. However, (as an elder on here) he just needs training! Hate to make this analogy, but it's the same as with a puppy. It takes time and repetition. It can be as direct as saying, "I did that for you, now you're gonna hold me for awhile, ..... got it?"
Why swallow if a person doesn’t like it? Or, why swallow? Advocating for those who are not big on swallowing, nothing else. I had a fwb who always gave me oral but worried letting me cum in her mouth would have a very negative result - throw up or feel gross. Until she tried one day and from that day on she never took her mouth off when I ejaculated. She let me truly finish before spitting. Was I disappointed? NO!!! She enjoyed the experience of my orgasm in her mouth and it turned her on. Yeay! It didn’t gross her out. Yeay! She willingly did it again because she felt like it. Yeay! Swallowing was the next step. I do like if my partner swallows, it’s a turn on. But not a must if she can’t do that. At least she didn’t stop when it mattered the most. yeah, sort of lecturing, sorry
Not all men lose interest after they cum In fact, knowing there is more pleasure for the woman to be had is all I need to keep giving.
^^ adding onto others if it's after i give them head then its like the reward for my hard work lol, its fun and arousing.
Reading that brings back memories of my friend who never gave oral until we met. The day she made me finish in her mouth there was no turning back. She got so wet and throbbing, more than ready to get her turn
As many times as not it triggers my wife to cum as I am when she's sucking me . Could be that's why she loves to do it .
It is such a turn on to me how my wife's mouth starts watering when she gives me a blow job. When she knows I'm cumming, I find it so hot how she goes to town sucking every last drop.