Does anyone not tell their partner....

....about their fetishes? Do both of you discuss each others wildest sex dreams or are you afraid he or she will hate hearing such things.

 

Me and my partner were together for almost two years before we started to share those things. I guess it's something that's difficult to tell anyone especially someone you want to be with

 

Mine at the time, was well aware early in the relationship.

 

Illness will devastate ones body. Illness will also devastate ones mind. When we were young and decided to be together long term we expanded our conversation to include the deep intimate thoughts and desires we had, sexual and otherwise. We would discuss our wildest sexual dreams and fantasies while discovering in what ways each found the greatest pleasure. Many of these fantasy's we acted upon and or supported without judgement. We had a torrid and fulfilling sex life together. She became quite ill years ago her and personality changed because of it. Her body failed her and she became celibate. Although she supports me, even encourages me, to continue with my sex life I no longer share my sexual experiences with her. I do not lie to her if she asks but she has decided not to.

 

It was almost five years into our marriage before my wife asked me to jerk off onto her stomach and tits. She said she really liked watching guys jerk off. After several sessions of this over the following weeks I asked her while I was straddling her stroking as she was rubbing one out, “ is this from guys fucking you that pulled out and came on you? She paused first but went on to tell me it was, I asked about how many and she said at that age they all pulled out and jerked themselves. Still wondering about that number she gave me, 3 before me. Does that sound like a girl that only had 3 different dicks by age 23?

 

Only thing she doesn't know is my liking to cam masturbate while people watch... mostly other dudes.
Trying to make a non exhibitionist understand exhibitionism is not really going to happen.
Nor will very many gals understand the sexual changes that happens to men in their 50s.... namely cock attraction.
So.. I will probably never tell her, because the outcome has a very small chance of being good.

 

Only her hairdresser knows for sure. I expect she could be honest about the number. A study done by the CDC shows 64% of women age 20-24 have had between 1 and 4 different partners for sex. Only 36 out of 100 women had more than 4 partners. Based on that she may be telling the truth.