I had an open relationship with my wife for eight years out of 25 married. I made more use if it than she did, we also played 5 months mfm. Now separated I consider myself pansexual. By polyamorous do you mean sex within a group or ....? Simon
We had a dear friend come live with us for several years. I fell in love with her and she with me. She and my spouse had feelings for each other but they were more compersion than romantic. The three of us lived together pretty much in harmony. We had a Vee hierarchical relationship with my spouse being my primary and the friend a secondary.
To each there own, but that’s not something my wife and would want in our relationship. Yes. We have a Consensual Non Monogamous marriage and we often play with other couples. We really enjoy the social and sexual interaction with them, but at the end of the night we want it to be just us.