Does a big penis feel better?

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  1. olderndirt

    olderndirt Senior Member

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    My wife agrees with you.
     
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  2. Python 8

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    My wife seemed to GREATLY enjoy a friend of ours whose cock was noticeably thicker than mine . By the same token I've never been able to witness her complete reaction when we are fucking so there's that . Mine's pretty normal thickness at 5+ " but as I mentioned his is thicker than that . While mine is longer and harder the girth really got to her . It was also exciting to witness .
     
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  3. Tarp

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    It's the age-old Internet question to which there are too many variables for a simple answer. I ran through the responses pretty quickly and didn't see the following mentioned. Some women, when extra aroused (read - extra lubrication), will prefer and get more satisfaction from a larger penis...or object. But it's something that not all women want all the time. Some women, from time to time, liked to be stretched and filled with objects that are, in many cases, much bigger than even the largest penis. My wife for example, before menopause, liked to masturbate with a bottle once in a which calculated out to be 3.9 times bigger than the average penis. After menopause, she hasn't had any desire to have larger insertions like that.

    As someone mentioned above, sometimes the best sellers in the toy department are bigger than a real penis. Some women like that on occasion while others get conditioned and prefer, if not downright need that size to get off. In an ideal world, men would have a penis they could adjust the size of to fit the woman's mood, arousal level, time of month, the way the stars aligned, etc, etc. That penis would mostly be adjustable in girth but length could come in play too.

    But, more specific to the original question, all else being equal, there is a point where many if not most women might prefer something bigger than average. But it can't be TOO big. It has to be just right for the occasion. Yes, it can be complicated.
     
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    Just a guess but I'd bet most women would enjoy one that's thicker than " what she's used to " every now and then . Or maybe more frequently than that !

    Ladies .....am I correct ?
     
  5. Arch Duke Ferdinand

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    I am only about 2.5 inches and have a small girth so my wife relies on her various dildos to satisfy her and her favorite is a very large black one. Some say size does not matter but it obviously does but that doesn’t mean lack of sex, it’s just different.
     
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    Depends what is big..I am about 7.5 inches hard and about 4.5 to inches in circumference......no complaints so far.. but it's what you do with it , your fingers and tongue that matter
     
  7. wilt88ta

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    It is not that frequent but, at least based on my personal experience, it can happen.
    While most of the time my partners had no problem if during sexual intercourse, when the level of arousal was very high for them too, I pushed it all in up to the hilt,
    it happened to me sometimes that few of them had her hands clasped at the base of my penis to prevent me from penetrating them deeply.
    As far as thickness is concerned, usually with patience, arousal and if needed a little extra lube, it can be solved. An adequate amount of lubricant applied just inside her and on the tip of the penis makes it more slippery and facilitates insertion even in the case of a strong difference in size.
    Regarding the length and extensibility of vaginas, however, it is another matter. I was said that, on average, men and women adapt well to each other, even if, as in all things, there may be special cases and limitations. Although there is a lot of elasticity and adaptability.
    One evening, during an after dinner with friends, a female friend of mine who is a gynecologist, answering a question about her work, told us that there are some tools used during medical visits, which comes in different sizes. For example the vaginal speculum. The use of one size or the other depends on the internal structure of the patient but it is not necessarily correlated with her build, how tall or large she is. So it is not predictable simply by looking at a woman who comes to the doctor's office. With the only limit that, unlike men, the sexual organs of women are encased in the body, and this limit, obviously, cannot be overcome.

    This always happens with my current girlfriend, but luckily it does not prevent us from having a satisfying sexual intercourse.
    It would be different if, as has happened to me sometimes in the past, the woman had a retroflexed uterus or suffered from dyspareunia, because in that case deep penetration can cause discomfort and pain.

    Yes, visually this is how we see things go. But despite that, the peculiar and funny thing for me is that, during intercourse, she keeps moving her legs nervously trying to hug me with them and she grasps my buttocks with her hands to draw me against her, even if I am already inside her as far as possible and I cannot enter more than that. I really enjoy this thing and the passionate and convinced way she does it when she loses control.
    I never push violently or with too fast movements. It is more of a progressive pressure. I like to feel that I am contained in a confined space and that the glans is pressing on the bottom.
    I like to look at the expression on her face and hear her moans when we do it. She also likes it a lot expecially when she is overwhelmed with sexual desire.
    The vagina is quite elastic and the feeling of that pressure on the glans trapped inside, together with her movements and her reactions is irresistible. She tells me that she likes it and sometimes, after sex, jokingly she says that I am her toil and her joy.

    With experience, experimentation and the improvement of mutual knowledge we have found our way of being together in bed too.
    In the missionary position, after I penetrated her, she joins her legs while my legs are outside hers and embrace them. In this way, when I got to the bottom and the glans pushes to the bottom of the vagina, the part of the penis still outside remains tight between her thighs giving me the impression of being all inside her. She tells me that the friction is incredible. Confirm that and feeling it big and hard gives her that extra enjoyable friction which works the entire crotch area (in & outside).

    In addition to the carnal pleasure of penetration and physical contact there is also the visual pleasure of seeing the point of contact of our bodies and the interaction if the position allows it.
     
  8. Slacker Of Krypton

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    When I was young and dumb, I bought into the notion that most women preferred long cocks. I’m pretty average at 6.5 inches so I did what a lot of “average” guys did and made myself and expert with my hands and tongue. What I didn’t realize at the time is that some women preferred a more girthy cock and I am 6 inch’s in girth. I wasn’t getting any complaints and even a few compliments.

    Women have tastes and preferences like men do and frankly, there is a lot attached to a cock that she might find arousing and desirable also.
     
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  9. 1withNature

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    I am just under 8 and very meaty. My wife loves it visually, obsessed with spooning it, and wants me to show my bulge off. Sexually she would admit she wishes it was slightly smaller but I keep my distance in doggy. She said every partner has been significantly smaller prior to me and just the head alone is enough to satisfy her and push her limits. This isn’t a boast of my size I don’t even consider myself well hung compared to porn stars but my wife says unbiased that aesthetically and measurements I have the dream penis. Do keep in mind vaginas vary in size and depth
     
  10. Barry Mandelay

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    And she said:
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  11. Alonso376

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    Why is it almost always answered only in length when size is asked? You could be 10 inches long but with no girth it's useless.
     
  12. Barry Mandelay

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    Nobody cares about a 4 inch cock that is 3 inches across but a ten incher, oh my! That 10 incher is probably only 5 inches in reality. Length is probably the only part measured and usually done incorrectly. Medically a penis should be measured along the top from pressing into the pelvic bone to tip. Personally I think the length should be the amount that can be penetrated. The big belly can get in the way. A seven inch cock laying under a three inch belly only penetrates four inches. But if that narrow little shaft curves up it might hit that g spot ever so well.
     
  13. luckya

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    Most women I have known prefer to masurbate with their fingers....making size a non issue.
     
  14. Claireeclaire

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    not necessarily but theres an undeniable factor of excitement and nervousness.
     
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  15. zorro69

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    Thanks v. much babe for sharing yr feelings of a big hard dick about to go into your little wet pussy hole :):eek:...if i were a gal, i can imagine how traumatised it would be for me feeling the monster abt to go in inside me down there :eek::eek:....haha
     
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  16. Tarp

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    I reread what I wrote. The bottle was the equivalent of 3.9 average sized penises in girth. A fair bit bigger than even the largest of real peckers. Luckily, it was only something she desired a few times a year for a few years. Now she has no interest.
     
  17. jimandjan

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    Wife says it depends on the person, some are good some not so good.
     
  18. Angela36

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    Let's face it. Most penises are roughly the same size, unless you are a porn star (If that's the case, we need to meet). Having said that, playing with the average size rock hard (erect) cock is a fun experience. I mean, there are times when I squeeze as hard as I can, and he's so fucking hard it's like squeezing the grip on my tennis racquet.
     
  19. Scharff

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    THAT'S a good fucking!
     
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