Does a big penis feel better?

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  1. johnsmall23

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    If were talking about penetration and assuming the guy is good in bed and the girls is turned on, does it feel better than an average one or smaller?
     
  2. iamjustme

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    I happen to be well endowed, thankfully not huge... like "porn dick" but I have a large cock.
    I have been told a billion times it feels better because it "fills them up more".
    It is simple science. The more a cock rubs the vaginal walls... the more stimulation is present.
    Anyone saying anything else is full of it.
    It is exactly the same as with a man... if you masturbate with your hands loose around your cock... it feels good, but feels much better with a proper amount of pressure.
     
  3. olderndirt

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    My wife says that, assuming equal skills and that she is attracted equally to both, bigger is better. She adds that the most skilled lovers she has enjoyed had "average" size cocks.
     
  4. johnsmall23

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    how big are you? both length and girth
     
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    how big is best for her?
     
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    Excluding me, her best by far at a little under six inches, her best lover had a cock about the same size as mine. He knew how to use it. The biggest she has experienced was about seven inches long and nearly two inches thick, based on comparisons to dildos she has used. Unfortunately, he didn't know how to use it to please her.
     
  7. Barry Mandelay

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    It must. Visually this is a proven fact. A study done jointly by the University of California and the University of New Mexico placed 33 examples of erect penises of all sizes in front of 75 women. The average size selected was 6.3" long and 4.7" around. For a one-time sexual experience the women chose a slightly larger penis than that. Why would they choose the larger examples if it didn't feel better inside their pussy?
     
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  8. NubbinsUp

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    Larger than average, yes, but just as there is such a thing for most women as "too small," there is such a thing for most women as "too big." The largest dildos on the market are not the best selling dildos on the market. However, the best selling dildos are larger (both longer and thicker) than the average adult male penis. It isn't definitive, because many are bought as gifts, but it's a good indicator.

    Lesbians may engage in strap-on or other phallus play, but as to a flesh and blood penis? No, if you aren't sexually attracted to men, big or small, she isn't going to want it in there, so feeling is irrelevant and not applicable.

    Also, the extent to which a woman emphasizes penis size as a selection criterion for a male sexual partner varies considerably from person to person. Does an honest and trustworthy partner feel better? One with a nice smile and compatible sense of humor? One who takes them dancing and is kind to others? Does it feel better to be with a man who is taller than they are? Does satisfying conversation with a partner feel better? Does being with someone who is confident but not arrogant feel better? Yes, these are the things that women consistently say are initially very important and attractive in a man, starting with honesty as consistently number 1. Men also consistently rank honesty as number 1 or 2. Height and smile are the only physical characteristics women identify that consistently rank high in what makes a man initially attractive as a partner.

    When it comes to physical sensation and stimulation during vaginal penetrative intercourse, those who particularly value a large penis as a physical characteristic in a male partner tend to have one or both of the following characteristics themselves - (1) they rate their own physical attractiveness as being very high; (2) they regularly experience orgasms from vaginal penetration alone without additional direct clitoral stimulation. Only 15 percent of women have this second characteristic.

    The more highly a woman rates her own looks, regardless of what others say about her, the more likely she is to prefer a large penis on a partner. The more frequently she can reach orgasm from in-and-out coitus alone, the more likely she is to prefer a large penis on a partner.

    So, whether a big penis feels better or not, if it's 174th on a woman's list of priorities for a mate, it isn't worth giving it much thought. If it's number 5 on her list, it would be good to ascertain that as early as possible.
     
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    I've always wondered about this particular "selection process". Cock size (especially erected size) is something that, in my experienced, can only be discerned after the "shall we get naked" selection process.
     
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  10. iamjustme

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    uh,..yeah...no
     
  11. DavidHB

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    And yet no matter how ‘big’ or ‘small’ you are, if you really want a wet & wildly orgasmic woman to play with... you’d be better placed worrying about engaging, seducing & stimulating her biggest sex organ instead: her brain.
     
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  12. NubbinsUp

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    No doubt, and that's why I identified those things that women consistently say are very important to them, penis size not among them. Your observation is very true today, but when it comes to intercourse, much of our selection process was imprinted long before anyone wore clothes. Our ancestors lost most of their body hair and walked fully upright (about 1.2 million years ago) for about a million years before anyone put on the first stitch of clothing (about 200,000 years ago). The goods were on display, and most evolutionary biologists believe that we humans have large penises compared to other primates specifically because penis size was a factor in sexual selection by our female ancestors.

    When it comes to reproductive urges and impulses, we aren't all that different from our ancestors. When it comes to physical sensations and how the sexual organs work, we probably aren't any different at all.
     
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  13. Danny Franks8

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    My girlfriend feels the thickness but more important is that she feels comfortable with me
     
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    How does this approach to sex partner selection explain the number of people who post "shaved pussy only!" or "underarm hair is too gross, dealbreaker"
     
  15. NubbinsUp

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    Fashions come and go, and personal grooming is purely a matter of fashion. Armpit and pubic hair have only recently been removed and even then only in some places on the planet today - it's a fashion that may last or may not. In many places few or no people remove that hair. However, even if it's a more common fashion than it is now, that hair will likely never disappear, through selection, or at least not in the next few thousand years, because it offers a functional advantage. That hair is in those particular areas to protect the skin from chafing and damage through friction.
     
  16. Andy Schumer

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    For what I know, there are some women that must have a smaller penis, or prefer smaller. Medical/physical reasons or preferences because of their bodies.
    I chatted with three such women I came close to me. Two of them chose to turn me down because they felt I am too big for them.

    I had some size queens who turned me down flat and would not give me the time of the day because I am too small for them.
    I am fine with that and I accept that fact of life as well but some women who have attitude when it comes to that, I felt they are stuck up bitches. It’s like someone asking for help, and I don’t do nothing, I walk away because their breasts are not good enough for me.

    I didn’t have that many women in my life but the ones I met were happy with me, for the size and how I used my penis. Majority said I was the thickest they ever had. Even though I know there are many men more endowed than I am

    I could have kept my answer short like this: not all women are the same. Still too many questions about size on this forum. I think I can wish you to feel more confident and find a woman who will be happy with you
     
  17. loveslovely

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    it dont matter what size it is big or small as long me and him satisfied
     
  18. Alonso376

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    This is a question that his pretty hard to get an honest answer. Not all women can take a big penis with pleasure but a lot can and definitely prefer it. Some women are perfectly happy with average 5 to 6 inch partner, yet secretly they fantasies of one of his friends of her friends husband who she knows has a 7 inch cock. My wife has mostly had 5.5 to 7 inch partners and couple 8inch plus. Im 7 inch curved up but not as girth as most. But I sometimes use a 10inch long 7inch girth realistic dildo on her and she cums at a different level. So size does matter.
     
  19. Danny Franks8

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    My girlfriend is quite comfortable with my dimensions, trying someone smaller would make her disappointed.
     
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    Yes, in my experience usually bigger is better. But I've had a 10in guy who was amazing at first but when he pushed all the way it was just uncomfortable. So bigger is better for sure, but we all have our limits.
     

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