Do You Think Sex Addiction Exists?

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  1. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

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    This seems to be the latest national craze: sex addiction.

    Do you think it exists?

    After all, there's gambling addiction. That's in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual that the American Psychiatric Association puts out). So there doesn't need to be a pharmacological substance to be hooked on, as in opiates.

    But then there's also "internet addiction", "shopping addiction", "texting addiction"....

    Do you think it's just sexual compulsivity, perhaps a manifestation of OCD?

    Or just slut shaming of male and female sluts?

    An excuse for cheating?
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I don't think you can justify cheating. If you want premiscuous life, don't tie down to a partner you're going to hurt.
    I think sex could be addicting. It feels good. It releases endorphins.
     
  3. pitbullmoma

    pitbullmoma Member

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    Yes I think it is real,like many other addictions.
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    A problem may arise when it is closely studied, it'll not only be an addiction but most likely a disease too.
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well, pretty much anything can potentially be addicting.

    on the other hand, you need a certain amount of exposure to something in order to become addicted to it, and since sex mostly just exists in the movies, i don't see how real people could ever reach the addiction threshold.
     
  6. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    Some people do it solo....a lot. I'm not blaming anyone but it could happen.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i suppose masturbation addiction is probably a pretty common problem.
     
  8. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I'm addicted to many things - one of them being this website & a few others.
     
  9. dwight78

    dwight78 Member

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    I'm not interested in medical terms or standard. Addiction in terms of not being able to do without something and indulging in it inordinately until you're physically unable to does exist in matters of sex/masturbation. I make no distinction because they serve same ends.

    Probably every masturbator you know would gladly have sex if their conditions for it are met(chief of which is to have the partner). When they're not, the go into the fantasy world to get what they want.

    I can think of no physical pleasure as intense as sex/orgasm and hence I can't see why it wouldn't be addicting
     
  10. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    I was once diagnosed with it. The description made sense to me. It's just a medical term for nympho slut.

    Absolutely.

    No, that's a good treatment for sex addiction. ;)
     
  11. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

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    How many times a day, can you have sex with your partner or Old Lady Fourfingers, before you are considered addict?
     
  12. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    The American pop culture definition of nympho is anybody who gets more sex than you do. ;)
     
  13. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

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    I think they are just jealous.
     
  14. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    Exactly.
     
  15. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    I used to know a serial cheater. He had a beautiful tall blonde intelligent girlfriend and he cheated on her constantly with girls who were usually inferior in some way...not as smart, not as pretty or in shape, etc....

    I believe sex addictions are real because guys like this exist. It doesn't excuse his cheating, he's still a piece of shit for it, but it does explain it. Why would you cheat on filet mignon with 99 cent cheeseburgers unless you were driven by some compulsion?
     
  16. NikeGirl

    NikeGirl Member

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    Oh yeahhhhh
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well, she must have been missing something if she stuck with him through it..
     
  18. Hotbabe1024

    Hotbabe1024 Member

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    I think if your sex, or masturbation is getting in the way of your like and getting things done then it is an addiction. if it works in with your life fine with no problems enjoy and keep going
     
  19. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Woo hoo, the APA puts out :drool5:
     
  20. nldn

    nldn Senior Member

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    I think that there are people who seem predisposed more than others to an addiction of one sort or another and that for some it is sex.
     

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