Okay, I think you're being sarcastic, but just in case... I wasn't raised that masturbation was a bad thing, nor that pre-marital sex was bad. I was taught that physical pleasure was something to share with someone special or important, not just a spouse. As far as masturbation, my mom never told me to avoid it. We didn't discuss it specifically, but she alluded to it being okay to satisfy urges. It was one of those awkward things, but mom didn't avoid anything. She figured it was better to discuss something controversial or uncomfortable than to avoid it. I want to be that way with our daughter as she grows up. At 3 it's a little early, but the time will come...
Yes, it's very immoral. When I found myself unable to stop, I had somebody cut off my fingers on each hand. It took me a long time to write this with my tongue, but whatever works.
It's certainly not wrong, but I do feel guilt when doing it because it is still portrayed by others as childish, pervy, and disgusting as is most commonly expressed when an unpopular person is called a wanker. Now I think maybe people attack such acts because they were discouraged from doing so and are jealous of those who could do it.
True story. I've got something called "Restless Leg Syndrome". It happens late at night, when I'm tired, and want to sleep, but I can't get relaxed. I feel like tossing and turning, moving around. If I try to remain still, it's near to impossible. It just drives you crazy, wanting to sleep, but unable to. I've begun using medical marijuana to help me sleep, and it really works. But here's the story: My daughter is an RN (nurse). I told her about the RLS, and she wrote back, telling me that she had read that masturbation helps. Well, I already "knew" that, intuitively, and by personal experience, but wasn't sure, and had no idea that it was documented. Plus, it seemed a bit "wrong" to me to masturbate for relief. But since my own daughter told me,,I've been using medical marijuana AND masturbating to get to sleep, if I'm not already tired enough. Works like a charm. Thank You, Jesus!
There is nothing wrong with masturbation, it's actually healthy. In fact, men who ejaculate frequently tend to live longer than men who don't.
People shouldn't do it if they don't think it's okay. There are many other activities to engage oneself in such as knitting sweaters or playing Moon Patrol. Otherwise, it's alright.
The physical act of 'Banging one out' may be ok but what are the effects of internet porn on the brain? http://yourbrainonporn.com/node/79
Imam as-Sadiq has said, ‘There are three persons, whom Allah will not talk to, look at, or purify and who will get painful torment on the Day of Resurrection; one who plucks out his white hairs (shaves his beard), one who makes love with himself (practices masturbation)