Hopefully, it's reciprocal! With all the std crap you younger folk have to deal with, the risk of oral transmission of many of them is considerably less than PIV. Not perfect, sure, but statistically less likely. My wife, after many years, then four months ago discovered oral to full completion. "What was I so worried about?"
You are so correct. After my divorce I dated several women before my present wife and all, including my ex-wife and present wife had one thing in common...They all enjoyed sucking cock and all swallowed.
Thats lucky. My first wife didn't like blowjobs which ironically sucked. My girlfriend now loves sucking my cock. Most weekends my balls are as empty as a hermits address book
It has indeed become the main course for me as other items have disappeared from the menu over the years.
Fascinating! I'd speculate that came about as a result of the publicizing of the aids epidemic. For a good while there, everyone was afraid that others could be infected.
Yes, though of course, std's are still present, but statistically much less chance of transfer. Especially if the lady is selective. As they should be anyway. Hint, older guys are safer (nudge, nudge, wink, wink).
About "all the std crap you younger folk have to deal with", I'm not sold on it being any worse these days than in our younger days. We were (generically) swapping gonorrhea, syphilis, papiloma, herpes, crabs, that I knew of. Only additional thing that I know of these days is the immunodeficiency virus which turns out is nowhere near as prevalent as once persuaded. Nor so contagious as once persuaded by piv. Not that people shouldn't be wary of its presence, but educated to the prevalence and transmission of it. Anyway, just like the youth of our generation picking our partners, I think the same kind of discrimination is still key to avoiding these contractions.
"...Anyway, just like the youth of our generation picking our partners, I think the same kind of discrimination is still key to avoiding these contractions...." Well put. And as I've read from my scanning of various 'social media' over the years, the upshot of many comments seem to be, to paraphrase: "Having a man lie on you and poke his dick around in you and then put his sperm in you, is one thing. But playing with him and you deciding what and when and how you're gonna let him go off, is another thing entirely." "Being submissive on your knees or under one can be fun, but being in charge is also good fun."
What's the point in sucking a mans cock if you don't swallow the reward. 99% of the men I suck I swallow.
I would and have. Funny, the couple of times it’s come up over the years, both of them never said anything beforehand and only stopped to mention it as it was obvious I was getting close. My response was to stop, turn them around and use their **** with absolutely no regard for their pleasure. One got off anyway. The other didn’t.