Do You Swallow?

If that's the case, I know a couple of friends who will never be sick from anything for the rest of their lives. I've even helped them! More than once!! And, of course, I've volunteered to administer booster shots.

 

I do

 

Good for you, young lady.

But use it carefully, 'cause that's a powerful tool in your feminine tool-box. I have crystal-clear memories from 30, 40 ,even 50 yrs ago of certain ladies. Oral is great, coming in your mouths is best, but if in a close relationship and knowing that you've swallowed us moves it to a whole other level. Carry on.

 

We're a part of you now........................

 

Yes, very true!

 

Twogiga, you've hit the nail on the head. That's the exact reason for the connection. We may have a taste of their breast milk when pregnant, but that's just curiosity. When they swallow what we produce from our body (there are small amounts of protein, minerals, etc in it), it will become part of their hair, skin and body. We can feed them.

The sexiest thing a woman ever said to me was (and I'll try to keep it short). She and her husband were seriously planning on divorcing cause she's had two miscarriages. We had a two month affair. She got pregnant, fortunately by him not me. When we were (rightfully) ending the affair, she came over, put me on a bed and sucked me. Then looked up at me and said, " Now me, and this little one in me, will be part of you." Oh, God! (They moved away, we lost touch of course, 'til ten years later, she had a wonderful ten-year old daughter.) That implanted a memory so solidly that if asked, now 40 yrs later, I can tell you every tiny detail about the woman she was.

So ladies, if the man is at all sensitive emotionally, you will create a bond that'll last for years. (Sorry if that turned into a bit of a lecture. My opinion only.)

 

A good blow job is a thing of delight, and swallowing (to me) is a message of unity and/or appreciation. Spitting it out feels like a bit of a rejection but the cumming can still be great. I'd still prefer to cum in a pussy. I've read that it's heathier for a woman to receive semen vaginally as they can absorb more of the beneficial compounds that way. True or not, it jives with what I think makes sense, plus there's the lubrication factor for the next penis, so there's that rationale in addition to me loving the feeling of pumping in her while cumming, the feeling of it on me too, and the enjoyment of eating her out later.

 

Interesting to discuss the "part of me". I had a friend who was pregnant but still saw her friends. I got head. Others got more. Always wondered about my delivery being a part of her.

She....like a few others I know and see....wouldn't do anything but swallow. I don't mind no matter what but some of my friends consider it to be impolite to do anything but swallow. It does make for a nice, neat ending. I wonder how much they like it versus do it because they believe it to be the right thing to do.

 

My wife use to but now only sucks my cock for a short time then stops as she wants to get fucked and orgasm. So I oblige. When I go down on her she wants me there until she orgasms then right into fucking. Being a Bi-male that’s only into oral, in the past whenever I sucked a cock I would swallow.

 

You could ask, perhaps.

 

I have. Many times. Some I believe when they tell me that they like it. Some I think are saying what they think I want to hear. I've had more than a few that take it but don't swallow. No matter. It's all good. My FWB just starts swallowing every few seconds as I get real fat. She doesn't care either way but she's does do great head. If I want to pump on her breasts, she loves it. On her pussy or ass...no problem. Face....that's fine. But I have to pull out for all of those. If I don't, she just swallows it all. Love her blowjobs. A couple of my friends don't miss a beat either.

 

Historically I would say the cock sucking was primarily for getting the man primed and ready for penetration and orgasmic release of both. That seems to be the biological imperative. Similarly, eating her out is similar preparation. At one era in history, that was the norm, and was typically what was referred to as foreplay. These tactics are not only beneficial but also very enjoyable.

It feels like the blowjob has developed more into a full service routine than before. I don't know if that's just my perception or what but things changed with the aids era and perhaps that's a factor.

I remember high school activities prior to aids, most girls fucked and were on the pill, I never saw a condom, we just came in them. Some of them went boyfriend to boyfriend, a lot of the ones who partied would just hook up with whoever they could whenever they could and parties were an ideal environment for that. At the bigger parties, they'd mix back in and go off with another guy after flirting. Some guys might do a couple of girls a night on occasion but more girls did multiple guys. It wasn't a secret but they tried to act sly about it anyway. A few were quite open about it and they were proudly known as being a sure thing.

I didn't know girls any who intended to finish a guy with a blowjob. It was usually just a short expression of appreciation prior to the pounding they were looking forward to. And most of the time it was just stick it in and go. We didn't need the prep aspect of it, we were hard as a rock just anticipating the fuck. They were always very wet, given their age and state of arousal they didn't need prep, plus it would be rare if they hadn't taken some loads recently. Eating her was unnecessary and usually skipped, unless it was your girlfriend. Plus the places where it was often done weren't that conducive to it except on rare occasion when you happened to get a house.

 

"....I remember high school activities prior to aids, most girls fucked and were on the pill, I never saw a condom, we just came in them. Some of them went boyfriend to boyfriend, a lot of the ones who partied would just hook up with whoever they could whenever they could and parties were an ideal environment for that. At the bigger parties, they'd mix back in and go off with another guy after flirting. Some guys might do a couple of girls a night on occasion but more girls did multiple guys. It wasn't a secret but they tried to act sly about it anyway. A few were quite open about it and they were proudly known as being a sure thing...."

Trudgin, where the hell did you go to high school?? Maybe I just got out earlier (mid '60s), and maybe the '70s were different, but jeez, that sounds like what we only imagined could be. Now that I think about it, the '70s were when I did most of my 'pollinating of the flowers' in my 20s and then 30s. And by then bj was sort of standard activity with the older ladies routinely swallowing. Nonetheless, that was a heck of a description you wrote.

 

Yes that was in the first half of the seventies, in a metropolitan area like towns and bedroom communities to a major city, the transition between densely populated and farms. Parties were typically in grassy areas in the woods.
I had no idea at the time the uniqueness of the times.

 

Yes, 'the pill' showed up in the late 60s, as did those horrid creations of the devil himself, pantyhose. (Interesting how every 5-6 years there's a re-interest in stockings among the ladies. Much healthier, cheaper, comfortable.) Now that you mention it, I probably used a condom twice. I'm sure our younger brothers here reading our exchanges now are envious, given the current state of things. But 'das de way it was' when dinosaurs roamed. <grin>

 

Swallow. Always

 

Oh my fc I am amazed at some of comments, sorry guys
If some women spit or don’t take it in her mouth, it’s NOT necessarily rejection!
How about, they can’t, they don’t like the taste or texture and unable to change that.
Some are honest about it and I was with a couple of them.
It’s not for narrow selfish minds to judge them.
On the other hand, if a woman is fine with it but refuses to please her guy orally (given he happily reciprocates), shame on her and if her guy gets it somewhere else just too bad, no right to whine and complain about it. Two way street

 

The biological drive is real, albeit stronger in some than others. When we disparage others for their findings, it signals where we likely are along the continuum.

 

I must have lived on another planet. I didn't discover all the sex in high school until they told me about it 20 years later.

 

It appears that over time the blowjob has evolved from being an appetizer to the main course for many women. And at that, a tasty entree which provides its own dessert.