EXACTLY! I do it subconsciously during the day, but at night naked in bed my hand gravitates to my cock and balls. Wife has no idea......why should she care?
I'm trying to get into edging, so not wearing underwear so I can do better pocket pool, and sit and move my legs and rock with my knees together. Going to try a no underwear May. I did this all the time when younger. Didn't wear underwear much then. Rocking with knees together rubs it on my shorts or jeans.
If I’m horny and unable to properly masturbate due to lack of privacy, I’ll just discreetly watch porn with my hand down my pants. I’ll usually do this off and on until I’m alone then it’s time to shoot the cream! Im going through such a time right now. Going on six days since I last came and won’t be alone for three more days. So I’m using the discreet play times as a means to slowly build up over those three days.
I don’t have the discipline to do this. Once I get started stroking my dick I always masturbate until I cum.