I'm a full blown (blowing) bisexual man. No doubt in my mind and I don't need anything other than a swinging dick to get me on my knees. A lot of the married men I've met for sex tend to have had a few drinks before we meet up. Same for meeting guys at bars, the guys who've had a couple seem more ready to drop trou. I personally enjoy sober sex because I feel like I do a better job of pleasing a guy when I have control of my senses and I will keep that memory clear for a bigger account in my spank bank. Do you find it easier to open up your zipper to another man after drinks or drugs? Have you tried it sober to see if you enjoy it more without remorse? Not judging. I'll suck you buzzed or not.
I've been with a lot of guys who need a couple of drinks before the action starts... or they've had a few drinks and something I didn't expect or anticipate is about to jump off. Sure, I've had a drink or two being with a guy, you know, to be social but not to get rid of my inhibitions... because I don't have any so while he's knocking back his favorite hair of the dog, I'm just waiting for him to ready for me to suck that dick and give him a lesson in how to suck a dick and swallow cum. I don't mind a guy being mildly buzzed but it's the ones who feel like they need to be seriously drunk and fucked up that tends to bother me.
I'd rather be high. It makes me super horny and heightens my senses. I don't smoke it these days I use edibles. The high is much smoother and lasts longer. Alcohol dulls the senses and can affect your performance which can turn what should be a fun time into a disappointing one. I've experienced it and wasn't fun.
I am a married cocksucker. I do find it easier to suck on a cock after I've had a few drinks to relax. I get a little nervous and a few beers or wine help that. So, I know your question was addressed the other direction, but that's my experience.
I don’t “need” a drink to open up to being with a guy. I’ve always been sober when meeting. Having said that getting buzzed always makes me horny. I’ve just never been in a situation where it’s been a contributing factor.
I've never had a drink or done drugs before having sex with another guy. I don't know if they have or not. I enjoy it and don't want my brain fogged or do something that I'll regret in the morning.
I guess it's like with bi and straight guys who don't need a drink to be with a woman. Since nowadays I far prefer men, I don't need a drink to be with a guy. Besides, I haven't had any alcohol or drugs since 1995. My round the clock gay horniness and another man is all it takes for me.
My first time it was alcohol that made it happen! It would never have happened without Since then it doesn't generally take part and if it does it's just because we are having a drink and not because we need it to have sex!
If you live in a metro area there may be kink or sex-positive clubs. They're good places. But forget swing clubs, the men tend to be intensely straight.
My first time came about as the two of us were sitting in a car and smoking. Being somewhat high erased all of my inhibitions and arguments about not doing it, so I just went with the moment. I sucked my first dick and swallowed as much as I could. The next couple of men I sucked were after I had a drink or two of alcohol. Finding out that I really and truly love sucking, the only drink I now have is when they cum in my mouth and I swallow it. It is better for me....