Do you look forward to Alone time, so you can Masturbate?

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  1. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i look forward to alone time because i'm an introvert. if i decide to masturbate, then so be it. but there's plenty of things i would rather do alone.

    that doesn't sound entirely healthy. kind of like the guys that can't get it up without porn. you might want to consider training yourself to get it up without a specific stimulus.
     
  2. LowHangers

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    For some reason my cock needs her presence to get raging hard. I can stroke one out without her, it just doesn't get raging hard.
     
  3. kinkydoyouloveme

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    i masturbate at least once a day even if ive had sex with someone. first feels great, second i have the best sleep of my life. sex is good, but nobody can fuck you like you can ;)
     
  4. Naked

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    When I haven’t cum in a few days I most certainly look forward to being alone. Usually means I will walk the apartment naked jerking my hard dick. Drip pre cum in places like the living room and blow loads in places that are usually off limits due to lack of privacy. Really hot in my opinion.
     
  5. Vicky666

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    Even if I’m not completely alone and I get horny, if I can get away with getting myself off without then noticing then I grab the chance. Obviously I have been caught a couple times but majority I’ve gotten away with.
     
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  6. Comic85

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    I recently wanked off while driving home from work late at night, stopping in a layby behind a parked lorry to finish off...Was so hot...now planning to do it again but this time I want to pull over and put a butt plug in my ass before driving off and playing with my cock...even talking about it is turning me on!
     
  7. Treesa

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    I often get home abit earlier and have about an hour to myself, I do have a healthy sex life but I do give myself attention. Most days I take of my soiled panty and just rub my vagina and use two fingers on my clit. It's more of a habit than desire
     
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  8. GuerrillaLorax

    GuerrillaLorax along the peripheries of civilization

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    Yes, quite often. When I'm not having sex much.
     
  9. thesantos

    thesantos Bi-Nudist

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    Same here... anytime I realize that I will be alone in the house, I get an evil grin thinking about jacking off. :)
     
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  10. NannyJ

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    Im on my own now. As Im posting on here im trying out my latest vibrator. Man its gooooood !
     
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  11. Micheal9

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    Like to hear more about it.
     
  12. Sheldonsfolly

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    Oh I agree love my wife dearly but I'm all about it when she leaves the house I can lay on the couch and watch porn
     
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  13. Comic85

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    I plan on masturbating while driving home tonight...Will tease myself until I can't hold it any longer, then pull into a layby and wank hard until I cum!
     
  14. lmm00

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    I have questions for the men who say they get so excited about masturbating... How often are you having sex? How does your wife feel about you masturbating? Do you feel like you have to sneak around and wait until she’s gone? Do you prefer masturbation to intercourse?

    I’m just still having a hard time imagining being so excited to touch myself. I’d much rather have sex...but to be fair, I do masturbate once or twice a day so maybe I’d be more excited about it if it didn’t happen so much.
     
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  15. thesantos

    thesantos Bi-Nudist

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    I was single for a long time before getting married. My only release was masturbation, and, I guess I got addicted.

    My wife had never masturbated and didn't understand why I did. Also, she feels insecure in her sexuality. So, if I masturbate it's like me saying "You aren't good enough." Finally, she doesn't enjoy playing with and teasing my cock. It's either intercourse or nothing. So, if I want my cock played with, I have to do it.
     
  16. lmm00

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    Thanks for your reply. One of the reasons I’m curious about this is because I’m wondering if I should give my husband more chances to masturbate. I don’t think he masturbates alone at all anymore. He says he can’t remember the last time. I’m always wanting sex so he doesn’t want to “waste it”. Occasionally we’ll do mutual masturbation together.
    It makes me a little sad that he might be wishing that I’d go away so he can jerk it in peace. Haha.
     
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  17. Comic85

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    I have regular sex but still enjoy and look forward to masturbating. My wife knows I do it and gives me time to do it as well (unspoken mind). She also masturbates regularly when I'm at work. Some people need it more than others I guess.
     
  18. lmm00

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    I masturbate at least twice a day myself. But only when my husband isn’t home. If he’s home then he takes care of it for me. But he can’t orgasm as much as I can so he normally doesn’t masturbate. This post has me feeling a little guilty about that. Haha.
     
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  19. thesantos

    thesantos Bi-Nudist

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    Here are two things to consider:
    1. If you believe that his denial is sincere, then trust that he is telling the truth and truly saving up his desire to give it to you.
    2. You could be playful and find some time to go shopping with a friend so that he can be alone at the house. Then, tease him a little. Leave out some lube, or a porn DVD (as a way to show your approval of his masturbation). Maybe take some sexy pictures of yourself and then send them to him while you are away (He gets one "round" by himself, and one with you when you get home). Be creative and fun.
     
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  20. lmm00

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    We have kids so if I’m out of the house, he’s got the kids. But maybe I can take them to the park or something to give him a little time alone. That actually sounds pretty nice...maybe he’ll record it for me. :)
    It will probably have to wait until period week though. I have a slightly higher sex drive than him and I’m selfish. Haha

    But I do believe his denial is probably sincere. He’s having more sex right now than ever before and really enjoying it.
     
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