You mean attractive guys only? Personally I think good looking guys are less inclined to be "aloof" than good looking girls but I dunno... Also some attractive girls seem to struggle to have many good female friends.Its weird. I think at 15 alot of people are abit nervous talking in some situations.Its prob as late as about 21 or 22 , that they get "fully confident".
Nahh.. I was one of the only 15 year olds there. The rest were like 16/17/18. Ive seen many good looking females with friends. And yeah i know what you mean, but for me, good looking girls will talk to me because they know Im not talking to them because theyre pretty.
A person that puts an effort into accentuating their appearance is usually doing so out of a lack of personality. In other words, I refuse to talk to a whole lot of people my age who make idiotic statements through "radical" fashions......... Because they're idiots.
Well I look like a heathen viking straight out of the Scandinavian countryside of the 700's And my personality is a ruthless evil heathen viking so I'd say they're linked quite well
That was taken sometime last year. imagine me with a beard, in different clothes and a sword in my hand and horn of mead in the other and thats what I look like now :cheers2:
when it comes to first impressions, im really bad at reading ppl, i dont really judge much, but i know everyone does a little. I just lost a friend because i had a bad judge of her and found out she has no morals. as of appearance, i can tell if a person cares about what they look like, are vain, lazy, fun, etc, by the way they put into their look.
fuck you, my radical fashions are an extention of my personality <reference nazi hat> i tend not to look ugly people in the eyes for fear of the medusa curse i tend to get along with attractive people because honestly, they're pretty if someone's pretty they don't need to have valid points personality is really just for ugly people to get by in life i just watched american pyscho and i can really relate to patrick bateman's way of thinking plus he's super hot
Even if you're pretty, you aint in the 'popular' crowd unless you're funny. You got no wit? Well you're only pretty from so many angles. :cheers2:
Depends.Women who dont put a maximum effort in are disgusting.. Guys who are over-obsessed with appearance can just be gay. I think appearance is part of identity.But someone who's *only* interested in clothes is a bit vacuous..and boring.
as a 1st impression or a glance yes....but if i talk to them or get to know them i dont make the link
I tend make an general idea of a person's personality based on their appearance, yes. But don't judge a book by it's cover! Sometimes, you've got the wrong idea.
No, not really. What pisses me off are really, really attractive people who are angry all the time. We live in a really shallow world where if you're very good looking and you fucking SMILE people practically worship you. But some people are just angry and I get mad because they got great looks and they waste their lives on stupid shit.
I never go by appearance, like I said some of the most coolest people I have ever come into contact with or conversed with looked like some crazy ass scary mofos... you just can't go by that, well for me at least, don't care what others go by cause it is not a concern of mine... But if I am around someone and my gut tells me to run away, regardless of what their appearance is, I will do so...
I generally go by what vibe a person gives off. Some of the most stunning women I ever met were spoilt, angry brats (like zoomie talked about) and their looks didn't mean a thing after that. I'm not going to lie and say that I don't get infatuated with pretty girls, as long as they're kind and have that big friendly smile that says 'I am no better than anyone else'.