Do You Have Female Partner Who Does Not Allow You To Give Her Oral Sex At All?

Some women are conscious of how they smell or look down there. Some women just don't like it, because it's how they are. Everyone is different when it comes to sexual preferences. I know I only like my clitoris licked, which some guys may not be able to do. I don't like the inner insides of my vagina licked.


I get more pleasure giving blowjobs better than regular penis-in-vagina sex. Some people may think I'm weird, but they can go take a hike. I can't change what I like and what my body responds to.

 

You can say that again! Some girls downright stink down there, and the smell of rotten blood completely ruins the mood. Women in the First World need to douche regularly to get rid of that rotten smell. Most guys would rather lick a dirty asshole than a stinky pussy laced with rotten blood.

 

No, I don't think your weird at all - some know their likes & dislikes & you know yours. You know what turns you on the most.
Possibly because a woman gets more aroused with having her clitoris licked than her vaginal area - its possiby a bigger turn on for both partners.
Yes, I agree, re: women are conscious of vaginal area smells etc.
Maybe I should just concentrate on my wife's clitoris during oral sex & leave her vagina for recieving other types of pleasuring instead.
She may just prefer that idea & allow it more often.

 

Do you believe her reasons for not wanting/liking it?

Perhaps she has had a bad experience with a previous partner and thats made her very self conscious about it.

Maybe telling her how much you enjoyed it the last time and want to taste her again. Just sticking with Clit stimulation might be the way to go?

 

Edit. Wrong thread!

 

Like anything, practice makes perfect. The first time a man goes down on a woman, it's going to be awkward, and this is where you can't be shy, and get very specific instructions from the woman on what she likes and doesn't like.. No point in tiring out your tongue doing things that just aren't working for her.

Oh, and the clit is sometimes really sensitive, so while most guys I guess would think to just go to town on that all day long, for most women it probably wouldn't be too enjoyable...

So, communication is key, and knowing what works...

Also, the "alphabet trick" works wonders...

 

It's important to know that every woman is different. I can't emphasize that enough.

I may need some prep time before oral sex. Going down on me when I'm not aroused feels weird. Once I'm super tingly, the clit can orgasm with the right pressure. I don't get much out of someone sticking their tongue inside me.

 

You probably wouldn't, except as an additional stimulation. However, I have never heard of a guy having the stamina (or the appropriate tongue size) to actually give a girl a vaginal orgasm with their tongue.. That would just be insane to try even....

:afro:

 

I've had guys try to stick their tongue to reach my G-spot, but it doesn't work.

 

Many of the posts here seem to imply that oral sex is just "mouth fucking."

Half the pleasure experienced during oral sex is the stimulation of the mouth. If you don't get exquisite pleasure in your lips, tongue, and mouth when kissing, then it's unlikely that you'll get much pleasure out of giving head.

For you experimenters .... or kinky types .... try this:
You and your partner sit on straight back chairs facing each other, knees touching. Clothing optional, but I prefer naked.
No touching with the hands allowed!
Lean forward until your lips just lightly touch .... put your hands on your thighs and find a comfortable position and balance.
Now start experimenting .... lightly touch just your tongue-tips .... lightly caress .... explore .... take your time .... take turns .... now try tongue-to-lip .... inner side of the lower lip .... back to just tongue-tips .... tease and explore .... learn how to experience as much oral pleasure as possible.

After you learn how to kiss you can begin to learn how to use your partner's genitals to stimulate your mouth while simultaneously pleasuring your partner.

Enjoy and play safely!

 

Old troll-thank you. You described my pleasure out of oral sex perfectly. My mouth gets stimulated. My mouth gets stimulated even when I eat and drink! There's just something erotic about putting something in your mouth .

 

I had a gf once who said she didn't like anyone going down on her, well one night she let me have ago and she loved it. Turned out all her other experiences were that guys were constantly just sticking their tongue in her hole as if it was a penis.