Do You Have Female Partner Who Does Not Allow You To Give Her Oral Sex At All?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by nz male, Oct 28, 2012.

  1. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    Just curious, how do you know?
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah. then they can ban drug talk. then they can ban sex talk. then they can rename the site Disneyforums.
     
  3. hitman73

    hitman73 Member

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    Hey hey lol. Im a kiwi and i get plenty. We are not all tarred with the same brush lol.
     
  4. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    Fair call.
     
  5. hitman73

    hitman73 Member

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    Cheers.
    Pretty entertaining this thread i must say lol.
     
  6. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    I know it's kind of like eating a sandwich without unwrapping it first.

    Stay Brown,
    Rev J
     
  7. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    not true...saying there are woman who prefer dental damns is like saying there are dudes that say ''do you think we can use a condom this time?''
     
  8. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Some prostitutes use them for preventing sexual transmitted diseases / bacteria being carried from the giver / reciever.
    If a woman dislikes the idea of having a guy lick her genitals for personal reasons or another, her partner can still give her oral without her feeling uneasy / freaking out about it. But there are other alternatives to dams - flavoured / unflavoured condoms altered to look like one - easy to do method.
     
  9. Mikaylaaa

    Mikaylaaa Guest

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    Who wouldn't like oral?
     
  10. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    I had a girlfriend that didn't like it. I never ask her why. It's to bad she had a great pussy
     
  11. InTheOtherCorner

    InTheOtherCorner Guest

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    I have a very small tongue and as such I am really crap at it. Hence my Mrs has only had it twice with me and didn't enjoy it on either occasion which is just as well because my tongue hurt for days afterwards.

    That doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like it, but she doesn't like it with me :confused:
     
  12. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Lastnight, ( after arriving home from work) I asked my wife to remove her underwear & she thought I was going to have intercourse, but instead I parted her legs & started licking & kissing them close to her genitals for a few minutes.
    Then I gradually used the tip of my nose to rub her clit / vagina with it. After that I started using a combination of my nose & mouth to stimulate her. Then came the moment she didn't expect - oral sex & she allowed me to do it till it got to orgasm stage. This was the first time she had given in to me to let me give her oral in within a few years. She dislikes the idea completely of recieving oral anytime. But this was also the longest session she had allowed me to give it to her as well. She just dislikes my mouth being down on her & what it might swallow etc. I then told her it's not unhealthy at all & she could enjoy it even more if only she put her own thoughts of 'unhealthy' aside & she could get aroused in this more intimate way occassionally.So next time (?) I will try another way of performing it which is accepted by her.
    Although she did get aroused lastnight, she still had her negative issues on her mind as well. So hopefully next time, I can make it even more enjoyable for her in this or another way she does agrees to ?
     
  13. slittylicker

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    Most women are happy to have a guy who loves to eat their pussy. Maybe she has already had an orgasm and wants you to stop. Clit stimulation after cumming is unbearable for a lot of women.

    Now, she has said, "what are you doing," when I lick her asshole, but I just keep doing it and she doesn't stop me. LOL.
    The other night she said that and I said, "I'm licking your asshole." LOL.
    there was no response. Hahahahahaaaaaaaahahahahahaaaaa.
     
  14. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Next time, I will place a thin cover over her genitals & then lick the outside surface & she will get just aroused if it slips all over her with the movement of my tongue & a lube between the two. I may tell her first that she's about to be given oral sex with a slight difference.
     
  15. dutch

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    It's sad when one partner has little libido and consequentially has no desire for the finer things like licking. In our case, medication she is taking causes the decrease. Several people have mentioned that they'd not be involved with a person who won't allow oral or anything else sexual for that matter, and we forget that there can be reasons why people have little desire. Suffice it to say that if people are really in love, sacrifices can be made.
     
  16. shaftsinker

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    I've never found a partner who didn't not enjoy pleasuring me. It's a give and take thing. If she doesn't give you head then she's selfish
     
  17. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I do find otherways to stimulate her & she does enjoy them, so we do have alternative ways that can be very acceptable to us both. Just a bit of a shame she's not acceptable to me giving her oral directly onto her bare genitals. I'll just have to accept her beliefs to keep things friendly & not go breaking the standards she sets me.
     
  18. aliemeow

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    Before my fiance i found that I hated getting oral, but i guess it was just the guys I was dating. Once you experience a guy who loves going down at you and is good at it, it's hard to resist
     
  19. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    So when he starts giving you oral, how long is it before you cant handle the stimulation anymore that he's giving you & then you have to ask him to stop? Or do you just keep cumming - one orgasm after another until he's worn out him self?
     
  20. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    let me guess, when you were dating your last boyfriend: "Before my current boyfriend i found that I hated getting oral, but i guess it was just the guys I was dating. Once you experience a guy who loves going down at you and is good at it, it's hard to resist."

    when you were dating the guy before him: "Before my current boyfriend i found that I hated getting oral, but i guess it was just the guys I was dating. Once you experience a guy who loves going down at you and is good at it, it's hard to resist."
     

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